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April 25th, 2012
12:01 AM ET
G-spot found! Now, maybe we should lose itIan Kerner, a sexuality counselor and New York Times best-selling author, blogs about sex weekly on The Chart. Read more from him on his website, GoodInBed.
It’s not so much the pleasure-potential of the area that is in doubt, but rather whether the G-spot is an independent anatomic entity, or conversely, a part of the surrounding structure. “The G-spot has been so difficult to identify because it is more of a physiological change - akin to swallowing or urinating - than an anatomic structure such as a nipple,” said Dr. Irwin Goldstein, editor-in-chief of The Journal of Sexual Medicine, after a study was published in his journal in 2010. Yet a new study published this week in The Journal of Sexual Medicine contends that the G-spot is indeed an independent anatomic structure. As the basis of his study, Dr. Adam Ostrzenski of the Institute of Gynecology in St. Petersburg, Florida, conducted a “stratum-by-stratum anterior vaginal wall dissection" on an 83-year-old cadaver. But can a definitive conclusion really be proffered on the basis on a single cadaver? Debby Herbenick, a research scientist at Indiana University and author of “Sex Made Easy," doesn’t think so. “Just because an anatomical entity was found in a cadaver doesn’t mean that it’s the G-spot. We don’t know much about this part that was identified or whether she ever experienced pleasure during stimulation of this part of her vagina.” And according to Emily Nagoski, author of the “Good in Bed Guide to Female Orgasms," “Women's genitals vary from each other - in shape, size, and functioning. This variability is what has made it so challenging to prove conclusively the existence of the G-spot. G-spots vary from woman to woman, and they change in unpredictable ways across a woman's lifespan.” Dr. Ostrzenski says his new study “may lead to a better understanding and improvement of female sexual function.” But he is also a driving force in the field of cosmetic gynecology, which, according to his website, “transforms female external genitalia appearance to look younger and more natural.” Many sexuality professionals consider the field controversial. Along with vaginal rejuvenation and labiaplasty, g-spotplasty is also one of the many procedures offered by Dr. Ostrzenski. In the case of G-spot procedures, the goal is not cosmetic, but rather to enable women to experience the broader pleasures of G-spot stimulation that some may feel they're missing out on. (Ostrzenski is not the only cosmetic surgeon to offer G-spot enhancement procedures: Dr. David Matlock developed the “G-shot," an injection which temporarily enlarges the area of the G-spot and purportedly enhances pleasure during sexual activity.) But Herbenick says many of these procedures have little scientifically published research behind them. “Little is known about their risks, benefits or complications.” And what about the fact that so many women inconsistently orgasm from vaginal penetration alone and generally require clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm? “I have this deep dread that women's magazines will decide that now women have no excuse for not having vaginal orgasms, when we know that only about a quarter to a third of women are reliably orgasmic from vaginal penetration alone,” says Nagoski. So now that we’ve found the G-spot, perhaps we should lose it again. Or at least enjoy it, without worrying about what it is or is not. |
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Ouch! Was the cadaver 83 year old, or was the person 83 when they died and the cadaver relatively fresh. I gotta know...
ROFLMAO. Obviously, neither the writer, nor the editor, bothered to proofread.
...either way,it doesn't sound very sexy.
1929 was a swinging year baby!
Ya know, they probably made the assumption (admittedly ill-advised, I grant you) that you could figure it out for yourself.
Dangling participle is the phrase you're looking for.
It's true women's bodies are definitely different.
They also have a mouth to say what they want and to order/command what the other person should be doing and what should it be done.
In the end to ultimately achieve real good sex, talking would be the answer... Knowing things, where to lick, how fast or slow the penetration is helps.
The g-spot may remain a mystery to all but a woman will know where the good spot is.
hmmm...in my experience (not to brag, but...extensive) the only g-spot i have found is between my partners........ears.
lame
lol thats the other g spot
I second the "lame" nomination.
In my experience, you may be a re-tard...
only Maestro can identify and make the stradivarius sing... and yes, men, the stradivarius exists
Oh, yes, it sure does. Siiiiiiiiiigh!
me thinks that this dr has come up with this "theory" and is promoting it is cuz he has a practice that specializes in “cosmetic gynecology”. what next doc...g-spot transplant? i guess this gives another thought for those who decide to be an organ donor...maybe there should be a box to check on your drivers license if you wish to be a "orgasm donor"?
LOL– you are on a roll, parkcitybrian.
You have a good point parkcitybrian. It seems like forever doctors would always discuss if the g-spot exist or not. Now he found it and know how to increase intenisity. All I know is that, without asking my wife tells me that I'm hitting the g-spot because she doesn't want me to stop hitting it. If the g-spot is getting hit right she will continue tell you to not stop.
I love it when women look me in the eye's with passion and ask, "what did you just do?"
I do that all the time...during a pleasure session 😉
What did you answer-the dishes? The laundry? The lawn? I gotta know! lol
Or "I don't know what you just did, but...DO IT AGAIN!" Unfortunately, sometimes WE don't know what we just did either :))
Smiling..... Looks like I need to do more research!!
I say you and I are looking for the hit on the G spot.to pleae your woman. Or any women if that be the case. I want the same. I ask weather it be oral or by penitration or masturbation. Clean sex.. Lovely women what can I do to make you enjoy your sex as much as B. Russell and I enjoy our's? My wife of 30 yrs. It's fun searching for the spot, but I want her to tell me ooooo yes right there. I think some women just want to please guys for some reason but like you and I, we want to please the women for the reason that they deserve. Thier lovelyness. It's only fair and it is a big turn on for us. I'd say open up ladies and tell us what feels good. Tell us what you want. It's not perversion it's a fact of life. It's a needed release of frustration and desires, that needs to be taken care of. Come on ladies you deserve what you like in sex...You women think you do need or want it but some men would really like to do that for you. Maybe a massage or masturbation for you laidies. Stay safe with whom you pick. No STD. I really believe with your openness you could stop anger and wars. Long live the open minded women... Bob
Stay on the scene, like a sex machine!
Jump Back, I wanna kiss myself
It is only because of our ridiculous prudish American culture that there is any question about this. I took medical school anatomy and readily found the answer – it's not that difficult. I will give you a clue, however: The male and female nervous system are not much different. Male and female brains have the same parts and those parts pretty much work the same way. There are many parallels in male and female gentilia. Find those parallels and you have your answer. Bottom line: The neurological sensations between males and females are very similar. So, males, if a female is not feeling what you do then you are doing something wrong and you should blame your church for you not knowing.
ok bob lol
we all knew that
You can blame YOUR Church all you want. *Mine* thankfully isn't like that. God created sex and meant for it to be pleasurable. It was no accident! He also created marriage. One man, one woman, committed to each other and that's when/where the pleasurable sex is to take place.
WOW, Layla, it sounds like you're just a ton of fun...NOT.
Maybe you should teach classes, Bob. During half-time, of course.
Layla – Actually, it was people who created marriage, NOT God!
I'm not sure what's going on with the picture for this story. We have a guy reading the paper in bed while a woman – presumably his wife – looks at the computer. How is this related to the discovery of the g-spot? I'm not seeing the connection can anybody help me? Only humorous answers please.
I'm doing a naked video chat with her while he's obsessing about the Packers.
He's looking for it in the classifieds section,and she's looking for it on Google? lol
shes looking it up for him to get it right. she finds it, and says hey dear, here it is. he's saying yes dear thats nice.
Her "Gspot" is G+ by Google, and his is section G – i.e. the sports section?
She's responding to her Latin Lover who has the Hammer of Thor, while he's wondering how is fantsy baseball team is doing this week.....
All women are not the same just as all men are not the same.
Some people are more sensetive than others in different areas there is no one answer. If you have a very sensitive female companion be willing to learn..If not your loss..
Nuff Said
I think if at first yoy don't succed, try,try,try,tyr again 🙂
But you should always proofread so you don't look like a dunce.
If you can't figure it out, I'd rather do it myself.
The comments on this thread are a total sausage party. Only guys... get the picture?
Dude...of course it's only guys on this...the fact is that there are only a certain percentage of women who are s#xual just for the heck of it...or who have nearly the drive of dudes. It's just the facts. If not, why do most women after the age of thirties throw in the towel, wear Chicos and start showing no interest in anything sexual. If I had a son I would teach him to find a woman who has an unquenchable sex drive and hang on tight. If a woman doesn't make sex a priority in life...you are finshed. As to the G-spot thing...it's just something dudes talk about...most women don't care one way or another. You can call this cynical but it's true. Luckily I found one that can't get enough.
Hoo boy– if you think we don't care you are so wrong. At least many of us. A woman can't tell her man where to find it if she doesn't know herself after all, so we gotta read this stuff too. Women don't blame your partner if you haven't done the necessary exploration on yourself! And yes it is true that some women have very healthy sex drives. Our culture tries to beat it out of us but ladies– we have to fight that crap! When we get complacent about sex the ones we hurt most are ourselves. Sex is awesome!!
Not.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Wl_uQOABxg Too many d icks on the dance floor! ~Flight of the Concords
You may only think you got a sexpot. I have friends who were totally into sex till they got married, then it was game over.
There is a solution to this....... If women would put their legs up more often, men would put the remote down and pay more attention to their wives needs.
And one could argue that if men were better at sex, women would be more inclined to "put their legs up," to use your terribly romantic (not) phraseology.
Just sayin'. Not that the "did the dishes" response above is far off base either.
Here's a hint: try kissing her. It's a much better beginning to seduction than 'put your legs up.' No wonder she isn't interested in you.
That is such a cliched response. Women's sex drive go up as they age not down. Men's sex drive take a nosedive. It's true in my home and in many of my friends' s home. Been married 18 yrs, I'm still a size 4, my husband has gained 30lbs. I try, I buy sexy things, suggest going to inspiration pt and doing it, I've even taken him to a motel in the middle of the week. His libido is almost non-existent. I know some of my friends have the same problem. My husband is a gamer and loves tech stuff more than sex.
What ? I've spent years trying to find that spot. And now that I think I'm really getting close, you want me to let it go ? No way !!
Nothing like taking a woman to a place she has never been before. Yes baby, we can go back.
Yes dear you can earn as we earn, control your life as we do and even enjoy sex as we do . Now shush-up, and go make me a sandwich. My gosh my fellow men lead lives and write columns un-examined.
It blows my mind that people continue to waste research money on something so palpable. I have a G-spot. I can palpitate it and there is a sensational difference. I have experienced this spot on other women, and I can appreciate penetrative sex because of the G-spot. It is not identical in all women, and just as labia size varies, so does the size and sensitivity of the g-spot vary. It feels like a tiny brain, if one had to describe it texturally. If you haven't found this on yourself or your partner, it is a big loss. Quit wasting time and money researching something men are too daft to put the effort into exploring!
Umm.. Please elaborate a little more about the other women. thanks!
Research on sex will never end because too many people are still curious about sex. Many people would like to make sex better but they don't know how. Sex has been here since the beginning of time. People need to listen to there mate when having sex and also pay attention to the erotic movies, take some pointers. I believe everyone to intensify there sensations of sex they are a little lost. You have to remember some women don't want there man to explore they already expect them to know everything there is about sex.
FWIW, texturally, you are right on the money (pun intended). I was thought it was weird that a certain area felt differently – but she really enjoyed it so I figured I had just found the right spot.
Not sure why this is news – I found this years ago. It's called a 'wallet'.
LOL...I'm a female but that made me almost spit out my sweet tea. Well played Hugh, well played.
And not just any size wallet because size does matter – the bigger the better!
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I've found it in my wife and a few (earlier) girlfriends. It's usually located about 2-3" in, towards the bladder. You can tell it's different, because the tissue becomes tighter, and you can feel semi-hard wrinkles as you rub it (not too hard, not to soft). If you're feeling that, she's getting close...
Sadly not all women have it. I have had girlfriends where it was very spongy and large. My ex, very thin and it never did anything for her, nor "got spongy". She would tell me to quit "playing around" and focus with her cl.itoris. I've had girlfriends where I could no wrong. It IS a very individual thing, and some women "don't have it". Come on, CNN, cl.itoris is a proper medical term!
Use it or lose it, I say!
See, I know I have one it's just elusive! I think perhaps some anatomy classes would do me good. I've had plenty of great sex, but G spot stimulation is a whole other story. I think maybe it's a mixture of the right place and the right frame of mind. All I know is that if I could i'd make my husband give it up on a daily. But i'm way way more into sex than he is. The stereotype that men are way more into sex than women is not always accurate. It's on my mind more often than not. My husband's not so much.
Don't women play with themselves enough. They should be able to point that right out.
Women are difficult. I wish I could compare notes with a solid dog, tom cat or stallion. I suspect they have it much easier. The only reliable course is to tune in exactly to the lady in question & ferret out the pleasure from her despite her doing everything she can to prevent you. If she is lonely it becomes slightly easier.
my hybred crystall ball sees all! U R NASTY
Ridiculous. How does bs like this become news? Depressing.
I bet you if it was about finding a G-Spot on a man, you wouldn't be so quick to complain....then again, they DID find the G-Spot on a man...it's called "Being touched by a woman (or another man if you go that way).." that seems to work just fine. But let's forget that women are a little different than that, and need a little more warming up the engine before diving right in..which is something a lot of you guys do....
"Don't go straight for the cl!toris boy! How about starting of with a kiss!" Gotta love Monty Python.
what's an orgasm?
All is know is whatever you want to call it, whenever I stimulate the one connected to my wife, things happen to her that don't happen any other way.
OMG! I feel left out of this field of research... too geeky I guess.
I was WAY left out of this research, darn it!!! This is research I'll gladly take part in! LOL!! 😀
In all seriousness, I do agree that women are different.
All I can say is when you hit the "spot" she"ll let you know in a very unassuming way! As far as the picture goes, well you know where the man's left hand is don't you?
The G spot is for right handed men to find. A lefty always leans to far to the right–missing the whole point!
Minors don't have G-spot. Sexmaniac be aware.
I like how the male doctor said 'We found it' and the female doctor says 'Wait a minute, maybe you didn't'. I know who I would believe .....
I know wimmens, and wimmens is difficult.
Our bodies are not all the same. Being a female and curious, it took me years to find out how to have female ejaculations.
Yes, they are real and fantastic. Every time it happens, I have multiple orgasms...so I am sure the answer lies in relaxing and allowing our sensuality to take center stage.... maybe some erotica.
As I said it took years before I learned to accept that there was more to explore and experience. And believe me, it was worth the wait.
What you are smoking, dude?
You've properly stimulated the G-spot when the result of your efforts requires either a.) you both sleep on towels that night, or b.) you have to replace the sheets.
Once you've made a girl squirt, there is nothing else like it.
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