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When is a woman more likely to fake it?
December 8th, 2011
07:27 AM ET

When is a woman more likely to fake it?

Ian Kerner, a sexuality counselor and New York Times best-selling author, blogs about sex on Thursdays on The Chart. Read more from him on his website, GoodInBed.

Ladies, how many of you have ever faked it? If so, why? Did you fake it because your orgasm just wasn’t going to happen? Or did you do it because his orgasm happened all too quickly? In that case, perhaps you faked your own orgasm to spare his feelings, or maybe to avoid having to talk about it.

But have you ever faked it because you thought that doing so might prevent him from cheating? A new study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found that 54% of women admitted to faking an orgasm, and that women who thought their partners might cheat were more likely to be the ones doing the faking.

While the idea of faking orgasm to keep a partner faithful is a novel one, one has to wonder about its potential effectiveness. I personally don’t know of any research to suggest that men are more likely to stay in a relationship with a partner who has orgasms, or that men are more likely to cheat if their partners do not have orgasms.

Of course, research into the female orgasm is fairly scant. Perhaps the women who are faking it in light of their partner’s potential infidelity are not doing so to keep their partners, but rather are faking it because the fear of their partner’s infidelity makes it difficult to have an orgasm in the first place.

“Maybe women fake orgasm more when they think their partner might cheat, not because orgasm persuades their partner to stay, but because the stress of not trusting their partner acts as a ‘brake’ on their arousal, making orgasm more difficult,” says sex educator Dr. Emily Nagoski. “If orgasm is expected by your partner, but isn’t easily achieved, faking is a way to meet that expectation and thus reinforce the relationship narrative that ‘everything is fine.’”

Of course, if a woman is faking it, everything is not fine, especially if she is worried that her partner could cheat.

“Faking it is by no means an effective strategy,” says Dr. Logan Levkoff, author of the book "How to Get Your Wife to Have Sex With You." “A relationship won’t have longevity simply because someone pretends that they have an orgasm. In fact, lack of physical satisfaction (and, clearly, a lack of honest communication) will definitely not lead to relationship success.”

And in my experience as a sex counselor, women who fake it consistently are also more likely to eventually stray themselves in search of sexual satisfaction.

But as we know from the famous “I’ll have what she’s having” scene in "When Harry Met Sally," men are easily fooled. According to the recently published National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, 85% of men said that their partner had experienced an orgasm during their most recent sexual event, while only 64% of women reported actually having had an orgasm.

The implication: Lots of women are faking it - and getting away with it. But if a woman fakes it and her partner thinks she is actually enjoying the sex, is her dissatisfaction really heard?

It isn’t easy to talk about sex, especially if you’re naïve enough to think that faking it is any sort of effective way to keep a partner from straying. But as Dr. Madeleine Castellanos notes, “The women in the study were mostly university students with a mean age of 21.8 years old and mean length of relationship of about 2 years and 9 months. There may be a higher level of anxiety in this population in regards to their relationship.”

Maybe that’s why women are said to experience their sexual peak later in life - not for physiological reasons, but because an older woman is less likely to fake it and more likely to pursue pleasure on a level playing field with her male partner.

And when it comes to faking, remember that the secret could come out.

“Faking can blow up in your face if a man finds out that his woman has been faking her excitement and orgasm all along,” adds Castellanos. “Talking to your partner about what you like and what really pleases you is more likely to develop a genuine erotic connection that he will value.”


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  1. Andy

    Baba Booey, Baba Booey!

    December 8, 2011 at 07:59 | Report abuse | Reply
    • DeeNYC

      Hey Now!

      December 8, 2011 at 11:37 | Report abuse |
    • npg

      hey Look Out! (OJ)

      December 8, 2011 at 12:13 | Report abuse |
    • Opie

      Fa fa ffffffoey. Ma ma monkey. Ra ra retard. Ta ta toothey. Fa fa flo hi.

      December 8, 2011 at 13:08 | Report abuse |
  2. James the elder

    I am one man who can honestly say that my wife has never faked it.

    December 8, 2011 at 09:18 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Js

      James, never met a woman who hasn't at least once!

      December 8, 2011 at 09:53 | Report abuse |
    • Camille Toh

      Yeah, you wife doesnt fake it with me either!

      December 8, 2011 at 10:01 | Report abuse |
    • JulioF

      Oh! You must not even be married then, huh? Clever!

      December 8, 2011 at 10:26 | Report abuse |
    • Guest

      I know, she said the same thing to my neighbor.

      December 8, 2011 at 11:33 | Report abuse |
    • ChicagoRob

      because she has never had one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

      December 8, 2011 at 11:40 | Report abuse |
    • Geoz

      You can say that, but you aren't your wife, so your opinion doesn't matter much.

      December 8, 2011 at 11:41 | Report abuse |
    • Herman Cain

      Your wife faked it with me, James.

      December 8, 2011 at 11:47 | Report abuse |
    • NOT MY CHAIR

      sure you can, im sure she would tell you

      December 8, 2011 at 11:56 | Report abuse |
    • Sigmund Freud

      As we have discussed, you don't really have a wife. She's only one of the many voices in your head.

      You should consider coming in to see me twice a week for a while.

      December 8, 2011 at 11:59 | Report abuse |
    • ritmocojo

      Dream on.

      December 8, 2011 at 12:23 | Report abuse |
    • Mike

      I agree ... she never did with me either.

      December 8, 2011 at 12:23 | Report abuse |
    • Reason

      She told me this morning in bed she has never NOT faked it with you.
      Its funny, you know, she said she thinks YOU always fake it as well. Shes not sure why, but apparently the pity she feels keeps her from leaving.

      December 8, 2011 at 12:28 | Report abuse |
    • Fred

      Well James, since you are "elder" it's only a matter of time before she starts faking it when you go limp.

      I suppose you could order some little blue pills?

      December 8, 2011 at 13:12 | Report abuse |
  3. Maelius

    Guess what ladies, men can and do fake it too. Food for thought. I agree with the author though that honest, open communication is necessary. Both parties need to understand what works for each other.

    December 8, 2011 at 09:59 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Camille Toh

      You’re preaching to the quire here. Can you talk to my partner!

      December 8, 2011 at 10:03 | Report abuse |
    • HugeLoad

      Hard to fake it all over her face.

      December 8, 2011 at 11:54 | Report abuse |
    • cando

      Ann: Possibliy men perfer 4th grade boys over you.

      December 8, 2011 at 12:16 | Report abuse |
  4. Ryan

    I imagine women are also more inclined to fake when they are cheating.

    December 8, 2011 at 10:04 | Report abuse | Reply
    • ab

      Yeah, you're probably right.

      December 8, 2011 at 11:44 | Report abuse |
  5. johnny three hands

    My wife has never faked it... She would rather just tell me to stop and that it's not going to happen when she's not going to get there (and not so much in the nice way).

    December 8, 2011 at 10:15 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Uncle Owen

      Wow, that sounds awful. Why would you marry a woman like that?

      December 8, 2011 at 11:20 | Report abuse |
    • Desilaunda

      Yeah, my girlfriend would do that too..I don't know its some kind of a guilt thing. Drama in bed drives me crazy. Either you take/get your orgasm or you don't...stop playin. Glad I am not with that bi*** anymore..haha..The present lady keeps her talk shut and does it. Nice.

      December 8, 2011 at 12:00 | Report abuse |
    • Al

      Sometimes, she's not gonna get there and sometimes she just donates to make me happy. On those occasions where it's not going to happen for her, she let's me know and I go ahead and plant the flag. But, she never is mean about it. If she were being mean about it, I would assume I did something to mess up her climb and would ask about it. She gets there almost every time. If she ever did not and was mean to me about and would not patiently help me understand what went wrong, I think I'd start looking for a new, more respectful, woman.

      December 8, 2011 at 13:32 | Report abuse |
    • big John

      Buddy, you are not doing something right. 100% satisfaction 100% of the time right here. Never had any complaints.

      December 8, 2011 at 14:00 | Report abuse |
  6. juju

    I never understood how women can 'act out' an orgasm and feel fine with it. My husband would call me on my s*** in a second if I even made a single attempt to fake. If you're faking, you're with the wrong guy or you haven't given him the respect to fill him in on how to please you which is really unfortunate for both of you.

    December 8, 2011 at 10:35 | Report abuse | Reply
    • VinoBianco

      It's really, very difficult if not impossible for some women. I think a lot have just accepted it, but still no reason to fake it.

      December 8, 2011 at 11:15 | Report abuse |
    • Geoz

      I would bet that 98% of the women who SAY that they can't orgasm, actually can.

      December 8, 2011 at 11:42 | Report abuse |
    • J-Ex

      perhaps the husband can satisfy the woman just fine....but given that they are two completely different animals with differeing physical and emotional needs maybe the woman physically and emotionally doesn't need/want the orgasm that particular time.... but she does what she does knowing that the male has a physical need to fulfill that is naturally more fulfilling to him knowing he has satisfied his partner in the process. Just sayin'

      December 8, 2011 at 11:48 | Report abuse |
    • long winters

      woman fake orgasms... men fake relationships...

      December 8, 2011 at 12:30 | Report abuse |
  7. libbyloo

    Why fake it? If I were your man, I would never trust you. If you fake that, what else do you lie about/manipulate? I don't care if you're trying to do "good" in some weak attempt for your man to stop cheating on you. Have you no self respect?

    December 8, 2011 at 11:01 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Watchmen

      LOL. You wouldn't trust a woman or question her trustworthiness in normal everyday situations based on her faking an orgasm. Insecure much?

      December 8, 2011 at 11:35 | Report abuse |
  8. Frank Drebin

    Q: How is a Catholic wife different from a Jewish wife?
    A: A Catholic wife has real orgasms but fake jewelry

    December 8, 2011 at 11:02 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Bikram

      My wife is not religious, both her jewelry and orgasms are real.

      December 8, 2011 at 11:42 | Report abuse |
    • ChicagoRob

      teehee..I don't giggle enough

      December 8, 2011 at 11:43 | Report abuse |
    • serdich

      Bikram..I guess she thinks you are no god ...

      December 8, 2011 at 12:27 | Report abuse |
  9. Roberto

    I don't think the connection between faking orgasm and men staying is completely spurious. It's important to our egos that we be able to please our partners, and if we cannot, I think that would be a difficult pill to swallow.

    If I knew that my wife was never satisfied with me, it wouldn't make me cheat, but I would certainly feel inadequate as a result. Maybe that ego bruise would cause some men to cheat? And anyway, who would you rather be intimate with? Someone who is bored with you, or someone who is really excited and into you?

    December 8, 2011 at 11:27 | Report abuse | Reply
  10. serdich

    Swinging is the solution...you get to cheat legally..

    December 8, 2011 at 11:33 | Report abuse | Reply
    • mike

      i agree ..and a lot of fun..

      December 8, 2011 at 12:13 | Report abuse |
  11. David M.

    I have the opposite problem. My wife orgasms within 30 to 60 seconds of penetration. Then she's done and I never get to finish.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:36 | Report abuse | Reply
    • ThsIsNotReal22

      Maybe she's faking and doesn't want you to finish?

      December 8, 2011 at 12:07 | Report abuse |
    • npg

      I fake it into a paper towel every night

      December 8, 2011 at 12:17 | Report abuse |
    • serdich

      if you are right handed...try with the left hand...

      December 8, 2011 at 12:25 | Report abuse |
    • Che

      By logic every deal has to be closed. Don't know why yours is this lazy to even try.

      December 9, 2011 at 10:20 | Report abuse |
  12. Melanie

    What's with you?

    December 8, 2011 at 11:36 | Report abuse | Reply
  13. Jackc14530

    My wife orgasms in 2 minutes while my girlfriend 5 lol Whats the point ? lol

    December 8, 2011 at 11:37 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Let's tell it like it really is

      They're faking it because you're FUgly.

      December 8, 2011 at 11:57 | Report abuse |
  14. BobZemko

    One way to keep your husband from cheating? Don't pack on 60 pounds after the wedding.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:37 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Jack

      Marriage = Fat wives

      December 8, 2011 at 11:45 | Report abuse |
    • ab

      Guys put on weight too. You think that beer gut turns us on? Think again.

      December 8, 2011 at 11:47 | Report abuse |
    • HugeLoad

      Men are not fat. Only fat women are fat.

      December 8, 2011 at 11:58 | Report abuse |
    • yoinks

      Why do woman get fat after marriage?!

      December 8, 2011 at 12:11 | Report abuse |
    • petly

      i couldnt agree more with you, my wif eput on 80 lbs after 3 years of being married. I'm in military i'm fit shes fat and weighs more than me. Idc if she orgasms

      December 8, 2011 at 13:10 | Report abuse |
  15. Curtis

    Hard to think my girl is faking it when the sheets are soaked after she finishes having her orgasms. A squirter is a wonderful thing.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:37 | Report abuse | Reply
    • John

      tasty too!

      December 8, 2011 at 11:43 | Report abuse |
    • Truamerikan

      Nah...she just peed herself from laughing at your feeble attempts to please her.

      December 8, 2011 at 11:48 | Report abuse |
    • Fred

      It's really just PP you know.

      December 8, 2011 at 11:50 | Report abuse |
    • bhs

      True that! Nothing better than being completely soaked! Ah... The art behind this kind of O! Good work!

      December 8, 2011 at 11:52 | Report abuse |
    • DC

      except for the cleanup!

      December 8, 2011 at 11:53 | Report abuse |
    • yoinks

      Fred, you idiot. It's not pp.

      December 8, 2011 at 12:12 | Report abuse |
  16. Show Some Class

    @Ann will you knock it off with the comments about the little boys – it wasn't clever the first time. Why don't you just shut your trolling mouth up.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:38 | Report abuse | Reply
  17. Wow...

    easy there, Angry Ann...not MOST men enjoy that. Kind of like saying MOST women murder their children and party for a month before telling anyone about it...

    December 8, 2011 at 11:38 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Frost

      Well Said!

      December 8, 2011 at 14:01 | Report abuse |
  18. Fish

    I always try to make her have the big O first. I figure I'm one and done and I know it will happen. I may get multiple out of her, it lasts longer, and I still get satisfied.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:42 | Report abuse | Reply
    • OhioPaul

      Ditto Fish...everyone's happy

      December 8, 2011 at 12:35 | Report abuse |
  19. Curt

    Who has to search through stock photos to find the photos to pair up with these stories? Some intern thinks the look in the woman's eyes says, "I feel like I have to fake orgasms to prevent my man from cheating"? How many photos were considered and rejected before this one was settled on?

    December 8, 2011 at 11:42 | Report abuse | Reply
  20. Geoz

    Bitter much?

    December 8, 2011 at 11:43 | Report abuse | Reply
  21. Shazaaam!

    I've been with women who've faked it. Its INCREDIBLY obvious. As soon as I put it in she IMMEDIATELY began hamming it up BIG TIME. Yeeow!

    December 8, 2011 at 11:43 | Report abuse | Reply
    • SilentBoy741

      The guy holding the cue cards for her was always the big hint for me.

      December 8, 2011 at 11:55 | Report abuse |
    • LongJohn

      Thats when a pool stick comes in handy....

      December 8, 2011 at 11:59 | Report abuse |
  22. Ricardo

    Reminds me of the joke: Whey do women fake orgasms? Because they think men care.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:44 | Report abuse | Reply
  23. db

    Women fake it!?!?! So do men when the woman lays there like a piece of liver. Not to exiciting.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:46 | Report abuse | Reply
  24. Fred

    Are you ANN Sandusky?

    December 8, 2011 at 11:46 | Report abuse | Reply
  25. LongJohn

    Yes, I cannot recall a time that i left one unsatisfied. Each one of them reminded me of a the candy called "gushers". Dead giveaway

    December 8, 2011 at 11:47 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Let's tell it like it really is

      Once does not count. And why was that "gusher" yellow? Hmmm.

      December 8, 2011 at 11:58 | Report abuse |
  26. Andrew

    What does this have to do with health more than any other story on CNN today. They should re-name this section the "Womans" section. Really, that's what it is, has been since its inception.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:49 | Report abuse | Reply
    • db

      mental health

      December 8, 2011 at 11:53 | Report abuse |
    • Andrew

      You could term anything mental health, if were terming relationship problems mental heath what isn't mental health.

      December 8, 2011 at 11:57 | Report abuse |
    • MyTake

      Climax has a psychological component. In women, this is usually much greater than in men. If a woman is not "turned on" during coitus then barring physical issues it is almost certainly a psychological one. However, if the issue is that the women has experienced climax and simply is waiting for her partner ... this is an issue of communication ...

      December 8, 2011 at 12:17 | Report abuse |
  27. LongJohn

    Another way to tell is if the woman calls you back after the first penetration encounter. If she comes back for more, pat yourself on the back. If she is reluctant to warm up to you afterwards, sometimes avoids your calls, and only consisders playing the game "only the tip" on drunken nights...... Not good my friend

    December 8, 2011 at 11:49 | Report abuse | Reply
  28. Meghan

    I fake it so they can stop trying. It's taking too long and I want it to end. True story everytime.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:51 | Report abuse | Reply
    • LongJohn

      Meghan that is just a shame. Ive always prided myself with how all the ladies seem to fall in love with me afterwards. That was in my younger years. My wife snagged me up pretty darn quick, she is 6 yrs older than me........

      December 8, 2011 at 11:55 | Report abuse |
    • Fred

      two words Meghan – Silver Bullet

      December 8, 2011 at 12:02 | Report abuse |
    • MyTake

      Wow, sorry. There are way to help you reach the experience you are missing. Consult your Doctor.

      December 8, 2011 at 12:10 | Report abuse |
    • MyTake

      Climax has a psychological component. In women, this is usually much greater than in men. If a woman is not "turned on" during coitus then barring physical issues it is almost certainly a psychological one. However, if the issue is that the women has experienced climax and simply is waiting for her partner ... this is an issue of communication ...

      December 8, 2011 at 12:17 | Report abuse |
    • OhioPaul

      Damn, I thought women want us to last a long time...when you're 18 and it happens before you can get to out of your pants, they complain or joke that "it takes him 2 minutes." See ladies, you need to communicate. Men are simple beings. If you tell us what you like in bed, 99% of us will take that advice and run with it.

      December 8, 2011 at 12:40 | Report abuse |
  29. Hot Love

    Man, when you're givin' them your hot love all wet and sticky, when they shudder in coital ectasy, quivering in delight full out mountainous pleasure... you KNOW they aren't faking it. If their fingers are deeply imbedded in your back leaving marks afterwards... they had a good time.

    You can tell, oh yes you can. You just gotta give it to her just right.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:52 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Let's tell it like it really is

      OK, you've told us about you and your cows on your farm. BFD.

      December 8, 2011 at 12:00 | Report abuse |
    • Hot Love

      Cows need love too, man. I love when they udder cries of delight! Sheep too... they just love being "fleeced." 😉

      December 8, 2011 at 12:07 | Report abuse |
    • MyTake

      For a women who experiences orgasm like that I totally agree. It's those unfortunate ladies who experience is not so potent that it would be difficult to tell.

      December 8, 2011 at 12:08 | Report abuse |
    • Terrils

      Women everywhere are chuckling at how cute it is that you think that can't be faked. 🙂

      December 8, 2011 at 12:19 | Report abuse |
    • Rbnlegend101

      The funny part is, what you are describing is pretty much what a fake looks like. Lots of screaming and thrashing and clawing and such is easy to fake. It's easier to be over the top in any sort of acting, it's realism that's tricky.

      December 8, 2011 at 13:13 | Report abuse |
    • Hot Love

      @ Rbnlegend101–ahh, see, you're missing the one, telltale sign. You see, just like old faithful, when you feel a huge gush from the brush, you know you've been successful. If you see them have to go pee right after, a pat on your own back is in order. 🙂

      December 8, 2011 at 13:28 | Report abuse |
  30. yarg

    A woman faking is dumb, the guys will never learn and you will never be satisfied by any man.
    If you fake orgasm your probably bad with communications with your partner and have a bad history of relationships as well.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:53 | Report abuse | Reply
  31. SilentBoy741

    “Faking can blow up in your face"
    Hahaha - best line of the day! Ladies, if you find this is happening to you, relax; you *aren't* faking it.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:53 | Report abuse | Reply
  32. fundies

    This article is written by a fake author.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:54 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Che

      You must be fake yourself.
      It take a Fake to know.

      December 9, 2011 at 10:26 | Report abuse |
    • Che

      You must be fake yourself.
      It takes a Fake to know.

      December 9, 2011 at 10:30 | Report abuse |
  33. Herman Cain

    Solution...get a young girlfriend.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:54 | Report abuse | Reply
  34. palintwit

    On one hand, teabaggers will tell you that s*x is a sin. But then they'll boink their cousins every Sunday right after church.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:54 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Wicked Fairy

      On Sunday, Liberals/Lefties/Progressives just do it at the Ocuppy camps in the swill of their sons and daughters.

      December 8, 2011 at 12:14 | Report abuse |
  35. Let's tell it like it really is

    PMS is ugly ain't it? Poor you.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:55 | Report abuse | Reply
  36. Beavis

    Question: How long does it take a woman to have an orgasm?

    Answer: who cares!

    December 8, 2011 at 11:56 | Report abuse | Reply
  37. HugeLoad

    You must have been on a liquid diet or your colon would have burst.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:57 | Report abuse | Reply
  38. Sarcasmo

    Men who cheat couldn't care less about you getting off. They care about whether THEY get off, and the sheer enjoyment of getting off. Which is why they're out getting off with other women too. This isn't rocket surgery.

    December 8, 2011 at 11:58 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Let's tell it like it really is

      No, they cheat because you're no better than a limp washrag.

      December 8, 2011 at 12:02 | Report abuse |
  39. Forrestal

    I just checked. A couple women I was with are still having one.

    December 8, 2011 at 12:02 | Report abuse | Reply
  40. gaucho420

    Your loss ladies...not ours. We're getting ours, so its much better to be honest and to work at it and get better, then to pretend as you are the one's losing out the most.

    December 8, 2011 at 12:03 | Report abuse | Reply
  41. ThereYaGo

    Lol....I had a buddy try to justify his cheating way's one time. "The purpose of man is to spead his seed." he said. He wasn't married, but infidelity in a relationship is just as bad in my opinion. Personally, I have never cheated on any woman I've been with. The whole...."do on to others" thing. I've been made fun of, called some names, but I just let it roll of my back.

    The way I see it, it'll come back on you. One way or another, it'll come back. Karma can be a b!tch. 🙂

    December 8, 2011 at 12:03 | Report abuse | Reply
    • JoJo

      I'll bet your buddy gets laid a lot more than you do.

      December 8, 2011 at 13:14 | Report abuse |
  42. MyTake

    Perhaps some women can fake orgasm, but men can fake whole relationships ... pwned!!

    December 8, 2011 at 12:04 | Report abuse | Reply
  43. Libby

    Women are not necessarily faking it that much....I think men sometimes mistake a woman's approach to climax for the actual climax. Women can be just as vocal on the trip as they are when they arrive at the destination – which means you're doing a good job! Just make sure you keep it up until she actually gets there. 😛

    December 8, 2011 at 12:04 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Forrestal

      I think most men sincerely try, but it doesn't always work out.

      December 8, 2011 at 12:09 | Report abuse |
  44. Wicked Fairy

    I don't care if she is faking it. As long as it goes in all three.

    December 8, 2011 at 12:08 | Report abuse | Reply
  45. LongJohn

    I had one tell me once "If you dont have 9 dont waste my time..." I grabbed her and said politley " I will give you 9, and I will throw in another 3 for free...."

    December 8, 2011 at 12:08 | Report abuse | Reply
  46. ron

    Actually a great article... but why won't any of you writers or doctors attemp a story on male faking? It is real even if different from a woman's fake. Sure you know when he completes the task but true orgasm and satisfaction are easily and routinely faked... Guys may say not, but isn't it true and obvious that not everytime is it the same or equal. We also want her to believe we were just taken to the moon even when we only made it to the stratosphere... Just food for thought...

    December 8, 2011 at 12:09 | Report abuse | Reply
  47. LongJohn

    The sh** must be pretty bad when a man has to fake it....

    December 8, 2011 at 12:10 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Forrestal

      Might not be that, guys sometimes have a difficult maintaining, particularly after the first session.

      December 8, 2011 at 12:13 | Report abuse |
    • LongJohn

      Well if he gets the 1st than that is all that matters. If I go for a second round the wifey is in for a treat. I will beat down on that sh** for a good clip.... and she is a champ... no faking... she will work for hers I can promise you.

      December 8, 2011 at 12:16 | Report abuse |
    • yoinks

      That's what I was thinking too. LOL

      December 8, 2011 at 12:25 | Report abuse |
  48. Captain Obvious

    Who cares if she's faking it or not. You're getting some; right!?

    December 8, 2011 at 12:10 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Libby

      Well, you sure won't have them coming back for more...

      December 8, 2011 at 12:14 | Report abuse |
    • Wicked Fairy

      The highest level of Olympic sports is deep dumpster depositing. You have to make all three to score a 10.

      December 8, 2011 at 12:18 | Report abuse |
  49. Jimbo

    They cheat because they found someone who actually wants to do the dirty and asks for it instead of acting like it's a chore.

    December 8, 2011 at 12:12 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Andrew

      Well said, you won't hear that stuff here much, this is feminist oriented, like everything on CNN, so the truth about women is not accepted.

      December 8, 2011 at 12:13 | Report abuse |
    • Terrils

      'til the new chick learns, like the old one did, that he doesn't know how to please her, nor does he care to learn.

      (Just sayin' – sometimes women aren't interested because the guy isn't capable of, or interested in, providing pleasure to anyone but himself)

      December 8, 2011 at 12:15 | Report abuse |
  50. LongJohn

    I Ole ann needs someone to knock the cob webs off it:)

    December 8, 2011 at 12:14 | Report abuse | Reply
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Get a behind-the-scenes look at the latest stories from CNN Chief Medical Correspondent, Dr. Sanjay Gupta, Senior Medical Correspondent Elizabeth Cohen and the CNN Medical Unit producers. They'll share news and views on health and medical trends - info that will help you take better care of yourself and the people you love.