Are female orgasms a 'bonus'?
October 13th, 2011
07:14 AM ET

Are female orgasms a 'bonus'?

Ian Kerner, a sexuality counselor and New York Times best-selling author, blogs about sex on Thursdays on The Chart. Read more from him on his website, GoodInBed.

What do female orgasms and male nipples have in common? It’s a question that is helping inform research into the purpose of female orgasm (other than simply as a form of pleasure).

Investigators want to know whether the female orgasm is an “adaptation” or “byproduct” of evolution. In other words, does the female orgasm, like the male orgasm, have its own evolutionary raison d’etre and contribute directly to reproductive success? Or is it just an awesome bonus? Make that totally awesome.

This question of whether the female orgasm is an adaptation or a byproduct came to the fore in 2005 with the publication of “The Case of the Female Orgasm: Bias in the Science of Evolution,” in which Indiana University professor Elisabeth Lloyd rigorously examined 21 theories that sought to promote the female orgasm as an adaptation and, ultimately, found all of them lacking.

Over the years, I’ve been lucky enough to have had some thought-provoking conversations with Lloyd on various topics – such as whether premature ejaculation makes good evolutionary sense – and recently, her work has been once again garnering much-deserved attention.

· One such theory involves “pair bonding,” the idea that orgasm bonds a couple emotionally so that they’re more likely to pursue parenthood.

· Another theory states that female orgasm is a part of mate selection: A woman will choose her mate based on his ability to bring her to climax.

· And a third main theory involves the belief that the contractions of female orgasm will draw sperm up the reproductive tract and into the uterus.

In her book, Lloyd argues that studies show that the vast majority of women do not experience orgasm as a result of intercourse alone, or do so inconsistently, so how could the female orgasm be an adaptation? If the female orgasm, like the male orgasm, was essential to the propagation of humanity, wouldn’t it need to occur consistently via sexual intercourse?

Instead, Lloyd argues to view the female orgasm through the lens of the “byproduct” theory, which holds that orgasm is a trait that is so heavily selected in males (reproduction wouldn’t happen without it) that women retain an inherent capacity – after all, men and women are physiologically the same during the first eight weeks of gestation: Penises grow out, clitorises grow in, but they share the same organic structure and tissue.

According to Lloyd, “It is crucial to note that the penis and the clitoris are the ‘same’ organ in men and women. ... [T]he nervous and erectile tissues involved in orgasm in both sexes arose from a common embryological source.”

This same byproduct theory also explains why men have nipples: The biological necessity of nursing our young makes the nipple so highly selected in women that male embryos develop immature structures as an evolutionary byproduct. Similar to the clitoris, the male nipple contains highly sensitive tissue that contributes to male sexual arousal and pleasure. Male nipples: arousing? Yes. Necessary? No.

Yet a study of twins and siblings published recently in the journal Animal Behavior questions the byproduct theory of female orgasm. Researchers looked for similarities in orgasm function between 10,000 Finnish female and male twins. And although there were significant similarities between same-sex twins, the researchers found no such correlation in orgasm function between opposite-sex twins, a correlation one would expect if female orgasm is a byproduct of male orgasm.

All this debate of adaptation vs. byproduct shouldn’t really matter to the average person who just wants to enjoy orgasms. The problem, though, is that we tend to believe that what’s “natural” is better, even orgasms. And if we do argue that the female orgasm is some sort of “evolutionary norm,” then what should be said of all the women who do not orgasm consistently – that they are somehow not normal?

As a sex counselor, I frequently receive e-mails from women who are unable to achieve orgasm via intercourse and wonder, “What can I do to change this? What’s wrong with me?”

Well, if we stop thinking of female orgasms as something that should naturally result from intercourse, then we can also stop feeling that there’s one right way to have orgasms. In this sense, the byproduct theory offers a more expansive and encompassing view of female sexuality.

Unfortunately the term “byproduct” doesn’t exactly resonate with a sense of the exalted, so perhaps we should stick to Lloyd’s later rephrasing of the female orgasm as a “fantastic bonus” – or as I like to say, totally awesome!

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  1. Courtney

    Female Orgasms: Who needs a hand gun when you have a semi-automatic? 😉

    October 13, 2011 at 12:27 | Report abuse | Reply
  2. howudothat

    To funny, but very interesting ...

    October 13, 2011 at 12:27 | Report abuse | Reply
  3. Rambo

    My wife of 24 years is 50, does not know what an orgasm is, and doesn't miss it.
    We made 2 kids of the $ex we wanted exactly when we wanted them.
    So, the O appears to be optional. However, I do wish...

    October 13, 2011 at 12:29 | Report abuse | Reply
    • irock

      I`m not saying your doing it wrong, I would make it a lifes quest to make this happen, Maybe you need to bring some help to bed with you. Or try anal, that gets um everytime.

      October 13, 2011 at 12:40 | Report abuse |
    • Rambo

      Help was turned down, and last time I mentioned the A word I slept in the doghouse for 2 months.

      October 13, 2011 at 12:58 | Report abuse |
    • Falero

      She doesn't feel comfortable with herself, or there is something physically wrong with her down under. I'm not trying to be mean when I say that, but that is very unfortunate....for her. To think to go through life and not experience the most intense feeling that life has to offer would be upsetting for me. You do need to pursue this and help her find that "spot". I think this is more of an issue with her than it is with you, but look at changing and doing whatever you can to help her. This is a must!!

      October 13, 2011 at 13:31 | Report abuse |
    • Rambo

      Falero: You are spot on. Thing is, I've been trying real hard for so long... What you have correctly pointed affects so many sides of her life that our couple is simply falling apart. Yes, personal therapy has been mentioned many times and always dismissed. Been to couple therapy, with temporary results. This ship is sinking, I appear to be the only one who does not want to drawn. My life is just beginning, it's mine, I'm responsible for it, so hasta la pasta. I'm turning the page.

      October 13, 2011 at 13:46 | Report abuse |
    • Falero

      Yeah, you can't help someone that doesn't want or see the need for help. So sad, as I'm sure her life isn't as positive or fullfilling as it could be. She's getting to the point where it is starting to become too late for change, she doesn't have many chances left. Good luck with that.

      October 13, 2011 at 14:14 | Report abuse |
    • sthflachk


      use one or two fingers and stroke her belly button (not literally, just aim that way) from the inside. thats usually a sweet spot

      October 13, 2011 at 15:52 | Report abuse |
  4. just a guest

    matrix09. just because u have to pay a woman to fake an orgasm doesnt mean that we cant have them.
    If the man i good, (im bragging again) I can have 17 or more. And this is true. but only with a man that can make it happen. Obviously you will not be on my list.

    October 13, 2011 at 12:29 | Report abuse | Reply
  5. the king

    I feel sorry for your women. (if they're real and not inflatable) You are very much out of tune with your partner if you can't tell when she's coming. So if she peed on you you'd think you did a good job?

    October 13, 2011 at 12:32 | Report abuse | Reply
  6. Join us in the 21st century

    omniscient, about the only thing on that list I haven't done is haul lumber ... I don't own a truck. Oh, and as far as needing sperm to produce a child, well, you are right there. Thanks to sperm banks, though, I don't need YOU. BTW, that goes both ways....try having a baby with that right hand of yours.

    October 13, 2011 at 12:33 | Report abuse | Reply
  7. Samuel R. Preston, III

    mmmm...I don't know but if the scientists involved need someone to help experiment with the chick in the photo for this article, hit me up. I would love to try to prove the theory one way or another 🙂 Oh yeah the gay guy on top of her would have to go...sorry...

    October 13, 2011 at 12:34 | Report abuse | Reply
    • irock

      WOW, your right, he has that I need a topper look, and she is hot I would prolly be a real dissappointment for her, The first time...

      October 13, 2011 at 12:44 | Report abuse |
  8. Smoking Baby

    Who cares if she is enjoying it or not. That sounds like a personal problem on her end.

    October 13, 2011 at 12:35 | Report abuse | Reply
  9. David D.

    Work hard to ensure your woman has regular orgasms...or some other guy will. It ain't rocket science. Just takes practice and good communication. Some times in ain't gonna happen and you just move along and have your fun. Make up for it with a nice back scratch or rub after to stay out of trouble.

    October 13, 2011 at 12:36 | Report abuse | Reply
  10. Punjab83

    Whats the saying again? Why do women fake orgasms? Because they think we care.

    October 13, 2011 at 12:37 | Report abuse | Reply
  11. gaucho420

    The comments on this article are RIDICULOUS! Good for a laugh break at work, that's for sure!

    October 13, 2011 at 12:41 | Report abuse | Reply
  12. David S Bercitt

    The female orgasm is a bonus, but it should be a required bonus. Being someone who it seems always produces the most common type of female orgasm, and who has been gifted to learn the secrets of the other, less accomplished (by men) type, I can say that it is required because if you can produce it, they love ya, simple as that. Or they love making love with you. Additionally, why should they go without orgasms? Why should they be the ones who miss this delight, when they have so much other work to do in sustaining the race?

    October 13, 2011 at 12:41 | Report abuse | Reply
  13. tom-ay

    I think the "second class" comment was meant to be ironic folks...

    October 13, 2011 at 12:42 | Report abuse | Reply
  14. tom-ay

    Straight Men just feel threatened when their organ isn't enough. Relax and enjoy the whole body folks. Really.

    October 13, 2011 at 12:44 | Report abuse | Reply
    • oyvey

      so i guess your gay?

      October 13, 2011 at 12:51 | Report abuse |
  15. FeministTrash

    Actually, this is just feminist rhetoric, that men are more violent than women. It's actually the other way around. Women are the predominant perpetrators of child maltreatment now, almost 60% to males 40%. Don't believe me just take a look at the US Department of Health and Human Services webpage. It's all there under their child maltreatment PDF report.

    October 13, 2011 at 12:47 | Report abuse | Reply
    • COOKIE

      Because women belong in the kitchen and the house

      October 13, 2011 at 13:01 | Report abuse |
    • DrtyOldMan

      Statistics are meaningless, because they're so easy to misinterpret. What is the incidence of child mistreatment per hour of child care? My guess is that men don't measure up on that basis.

      October 13, 2011 at 16:33 | Report abuse |
    • FeministTrash

      Women making excuses...no way! How can you excuse child maltreatment by saying it happens because men aren't there? If that's the case why spread your legs and even have a child in the first place?

      October 13, 2011 at 21:49 | Report abuse |
    • Newo

      that's because so many dads have bailed. Have you considered that statistic in consideration of the number of mother-only homes? Dad can't beat the kid if he disappeared.

      October 13, 2011 at 19:41 | Report abuse |
    • FeministTrash

      Leave it to a feminist woman to blame men for their rising rates of child abuse lol

      "The father isn't around so I'm gonna beat the crap outta this child!"

      Gotta love the new breed of Western women. Worse than the old breed of Western men lol

      October 13, 2011 at 21:51 | Report abuse |
    • Sam

      Over 70% of child maltreatment is neglect not a violent act (but a passive on), and most likely these kids not being taken care of by their mothers were already abandoned by their fathers.

      October 16, 2011 at 20:46 | Report abuse |
  16. caravanb

    Wow Grim Reaper, second class equipment? Well, i suppose that means I have first class equipment since I am a man? I do love my equipment...but do you kknow why? Because of the second class equipment. In-fact, I thank god every day for second class equipment! Without it my life wouldn't be near as fun!

    October 13, 2011 at 12:49 | Report abuse | Reply
  17. Johnny5

    I have it on VERY good authority that both premature ejaculation AND the female orgasm are myths. They do not exist!

    October 13, 2011 at 12:50 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Burbank

      If you think that's so, you must be a virgin.

      October 13, 2011 at 12:53 | Report abuse |
    • caravanb

      I used to think the female orgasm was like the lochness monster..everyone heard of it but no-one has ever seen it..but since my wife turned 35 or so...I am now a believer in the female orgasm...If we could just get concrete evidence nessy exists, that would kill that myth too. Anyone have proof of nessy?

      October 13, 2011 at 12:56 | Report abuse |
    • Falero

      LOL, keep "reading" that Victoria Secret's magazine. That will be you "girlfriend" for quite some time.

      October 13, 2011 at 13:02 | Report abuse |
    • Hange

      You're kidding right? Trust me, women have orgasms.

      October 13, 2011 at 13:19 | Report abuse |
    • Sugartaste81

      Then you have no idea what you're doing with a female body.

      October 13, 2011 at 13:38 | Report abuse |
    • bahaha


      October 13, 2011 at 13:45 | Report abuse |
  18. oyvey

    its bonus if you are comfortable enough ith your body and learn your body to get a good one. older woman are better at orgasm from practice and able to get multiple orgasm. The women who are comfortable enough with their body can get this bonus. this is from my experience.

    October 13, 2011 at 12:50 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Sugartaste81

      So true..I turned 30 recently and have recently discovered the joy of g-spot orgasms. I can't wait to see what else is in store!

      October 13, 2011 at 13:39 | Report abuse |
    • Tha Chikin

      DEFINITE bonus!! After 30, it only gets better! If it was like this in my 20's I would be an addict for sure!!

      October 13, 2011 at 14:37 | Report abuse |
  19. Burbank

    If the guy doesn't want to be faced with "headache" after "headache" it had better be considered a necessity!

    October 13, 2011 at 12:52 | Report abuse | Reply
  20. Nick

    If women are having trouble with an orgasm, come see me. Garuntteed I can give you one.

    October 13, 2011 at 12:52 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Fedor

      Along with some STD's

      October 13, 2011 at 13:46 | Report abuse |
  21. Fuyuko

    Some women just don't get off on penetration alone.

    October 13, 2011 at 12:54 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Tha Chikin

      I used to think that too... how wrong I was!!

      October 13, 2011 at 14:39 | Report abuse |
    • mimi_nef

      The vast majority of women do not get off from penetration alone.

      However, most of us are able to fake it enough to convince men.

      October 13, 2011 at 22:08 | Report abuse |
    • Marty

      Keep telling yourself that, Studley!

      October 14, 2011 at 13:32 | Report abuse |
    • paganguy

      Not with a minutman. Try a cyclist, they ride longer.

      October 31, 2011 at 03:56 | Report abuse |
    • bz

      that's because they haven't met me!

      December 5, 2011 at 09:02 | Report abuse |
  22. Falero

    Very stimulating article!!! I always aim to go 2nd, in regards to climax, with my wife. I usually can make her hmmm by my doing, but sometimes she has to get on top. I think it's great that she'll get multiple times, as she will be left very satisfied. Sometimes, though, she just can't. Whether we're strapped for time or she has too much on her mind. As I am a lil dissapointed for her, I don't let it bother me, as I KNOW how to get mine!! 😉

    I usually can tell when she finishes as the inside of her vah-jay-jay pulsates/spasms around my "sword(that's what I'm calling it!! :-)". This coincides with her telling me. My guess would be that when this happens, and if I were to climax at the same time, that the stimulated tissue would help assist the sperm to reach their final destination. That is just my guess

    October 13, 2011 at 12:56 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Clark Owen


      October 13, 2011 at 13:15 | Report abuse |
    • irock

      Yes it do!

      October 13, 2011 at 14:21 | Report abuse |
    • E

      I think people who talk like you are full of it. Why did you share that? People who are pleased with their lives don't go online and write a whole paragraph of personal info. You're lying and you know it.

      October 14, 2011 at 14:11 | Report abuse |
    • Richard Bergstrom

      I would guess that your wife would be very unsatisfied if she heard you call her womanhood a "vah-jay-jay".

      November 6, 2011 at 03:26 | Report abuse |
  23. Edsr

    Along with causing multiples when I have an event.........I have a problem because all I have to do is TOUCH a woman's hand and she gets pregnant! It is a curse!! I don't mind pleasing a woman.....that is correct and fair...but every time....ends up with a pregnancy! I don't like wearing a "preventer" so my only solution I guess is to stop doing what I am doing and be celibate!

    October 13, 2011 at 13:00 | Report abuse | Reply
    • OldGoat

      Get a vasectomy and you won't cause accidental pregnancies.

      October 13, 2011 at 13:10 | Report abuse |
    • Chartreuxe

      Learn to use a condom or keep it in your pants, that's right. Otherwise get ready to pay child support for a minimum of 18 years...or were you bragging?

      October 13, 2011 at 18:03 | Report abuse |
    • justme

      Ever heard of this thing called vasectomy? If you don't want kids, take measures for it! My husband had one and the worry-free $ ex is so much better!!!

      October 14, 2011 at 09:02 | Report abuse |
    • LadyDyeAgnostic

      Pick another h0le..you have options ;0)

      October 14, 2011 at 10:15 | Report abuse |
    • Richard Bergstrom

      So if you lay your hands on a woman she gets pregnant? That makes you kind of like Jesus, but kind of not...

      November 6, 2011 at 03:28 | Report abuse |
    • LEB

      Not wearing a "preventer" is less uncomfortable than paying child support for 18+ years? If you're that lazy, get a friggin' vasectomy.

      November 9, 2011 at 04:37 | Report abuse |
  24. PunkGirl

    When my boyfriend and I do the deed, I want to come. We can "bond" cuddling on the couch watching tv or by talking over dinner. The female orgasm is necessary for me. When I am satisfied, I make sure he is too. 😉

    October 13, 2011 at 13:00 | Report abuse | Reply
    • rafael

      I think I speak for everyone here when I say WGAF.

      November 9, 2011 at 21:46 | Report abuse |
  25. Razor's Edge

    Must be a slow news day elsewhere.

    If this isn't the dumbest reason to write an article. As to the question the "author" asks – DEPENDS ON WHO YOU ASK MORON – the man or the woman !!!

    October 13, 2011 at 13:00 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Falero

      I think it's safe to assume that the only people who don't find this article interesting, are the ones not getting any.

      October 13, 2011 at 13:08 | Report abuse |
  26. Jennifer

    honestly have more fun pleasing my partner

    October 13, 2011 at 13:01 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Paul

      Allll Right, giggity giggity giggity 🙂

      October 13, 2011 at 14:24 | Report abuse |
  27. SomeGuy

    Female Orgasm? Who cares? It's not like I'm doing this for her.

    October 13, 2011 at 13:02 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Sugartaste81

      SomeGirl is very lucky to have you. No wait, she's not, she's getting her pleasure from her hot neighbor who DOES care if she comes!

      October 13, 2011 at 13:41 | Report abuse |
    • PunkGirl

      Don't feed the trolls. If he gets too fat, his blow up girlfriend may burst.

      October 13, 2011 at 14:20 | Report abuse |
    • owlsRus

      Maybe you just can't bet it u.pKkeep trying sweetie.

      October 13, 2011 at 15:57 | Report abuse |
  28. larrydavidsandwhich

    I wish CNN would do an op-ed on bukkake.

    October 13, 2011 at 13:02 | Report abuse | Reply
  29. Andromeda

    Just wondering why would the researchers publish their study about twins and siblings in the "Journal Animal Behavior" ??? Were they not able to find some better journal? I agree the subject here is an animalistic act but still, it seems like authors saw it as more of an animal behavior than a human behavior.. funny ..

    October 13, 2011 at 13:03 | Report abuse | Reply
    • dg

      Humans are animals, so I am not sure why you have an issue with this.

      October 14, 2011 at 07:42 | Report abuse |
  30. What

    CNN has turned in to Onion news....

    October 13, 2011 at 13:06 | Report abuse | Reply
  31. OldGoat

    All my life I have pursued "second class equipment" so I can give its owner a first class experience. 🙂

    October 13, 2011 at 13:07 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Edsr

      I don't want a vasectomy! Hate surgery. Your experience transcends two centuries.....I am surprised you can still go to the bathroom much less have an orgasm.

      October 13, 2011 at 14:30 | Report abuse |
  32. livinlife420

    I love my second class equipment!

    October 13, 2011 at 13:08 | Report abuse | Reply
  33. JoJo

    Fascinating article! I had no idea females could even have articles. This explains so much in my life.

    October 13, 2011 at 13:12 | Report abuse | Reply
    • JoJo

      *orgazims.. sorry. Is that what it was called??

      October 13, 2011 at 13:12 | Report abuse |
  34. Patrick

    If a woman does not enjoy the act then she's less likely to choose to do it I assume. It's odd that this is a question. Perhaps in a society where a woman's choice is not an issue one could wonder if the female org4sm is needed but most of us have concluded getting it on is an act that two people decide together to pursue. Bringing a woman pleasure is sure to increase the likely hood of her being with a certain man again and the contractions are going to certainly help increase the odds of fertilization.

    October 13, 2011 at 13:12 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Lily

      I'd agree. If s e x isn't pleasurable for a woman, it's often downright painful or even causes some degree of injury. What woman would go along with it then if she wasn't under some pretty powerful physical or social coercion?

      October 14, 2011 at 11:11 | Report abuse |
  35. bob

    With news articles likes these, we see why people avoid CNN.

    October 13, 2011 at 13:17 | Report abuse | Reply
  36. wow

    If it isn't about different political sides, races, nationalities, states, or even neighborhoods, people have to fight about the superiority of each gender's genitalia? Why do people always have to turn everything into some kind of "pick your sport, pick your team, and start hating each other"?

    October 13, 2011 at 13:19 | Report abuse | Reply
  37. BoldGeorge

    "...does the female orgasm, like the male orgasm, have its own evolutionary raison d’etre and contribute directly to reproductive success?"

    It's no wonder this topic is all to confusing to evolutionists. How would evolution explain many women who don't experience orgasms but still get pregnant? God created, man. Then He created woman..and He created us both with s e x u a l organs fully loaded with pleasure glands and nerves. And like everything that God has created for us and in us, it all depends on how we use it or if we abuse it that will result in whatever it does.

    October 13, 2011 at 13:22 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Sugartaste81

      Then how do you explain why females of other species have orgasms as well??

      October 13, 2011 at 13:44 | Report abuse |
  38. Resident Cynic

    Female orgasm is definately a biological process that is evolutionary based. If the female has an orgasm with a mate, then they will want to keep him and continue the act of procreation. If not, you keep looking elsewhere.

    October 13, 2011 at 13:35 | Report abuse | Reply
  39. Coriolana

    Methinks the doctor needs an excuse for lousy performance!

    October 13, 2011 at 13:42 | Report abuse | Reply
  40. Edsr

    Anybody lady looking for an orgasm? I am "The Mailman" and I deliver!

    October 13, 2011 at 14:27 | Report abuse | Reply
  41. Paul

    Wow........ I bet if I made my screen name "killalltheblackman", you would probably think I was a racist.

    October 13, 2011 at 14:32 | Report abuse | Reply
  42. Goddess Priest

    One thing I know is. My wife is pleasured first. Once she has gone. I'm free to go whenever I want. Thast how it should be. Women always come first.

    October 13, 2011 at 14:46 | Report abuse | Reply
  43. Edwin

    I let me wife go first and then I return to her afterwards. It's the least I can do when I know she makes my eyes roll back in my head and I hear the 1812 Overture.

    October 13, 2011 at 15:18 | Report abuse | Reply
    • LadyDyeAgnostic

      Maybe you fell out of bed and hit your head on the radio on the nightstand? Just sayin'...

      October 14, 2011 at 10:19 | Report abuse |
  44. Shuw

    My wife gets off by tieing me up and having her way with me. Sometimes she doe not allow me to climax other times she does.

    October 13, 2011 at 15:50 | Report abuse | Reply
  45. BadBoxer22

    What the h3ll.....It's always good for me. My 3rd wife better agree.....LOL

    October 13, 2011 at 18:22 | Report abuse | Reply
  46. FeministTrash

    Leave it to a feminist woman to blame men for their rising rates of child abuse lol

    "The father isn't around so I'm gonna beat the crap outta this child!"

    Gotta love the new breed of Western women. Worse than the old breed of Western men lol

    Here's a novel concept: Don't spread your legs to deadbeat men!

    October 13, 2011 at 21:54 | Report abuse | Reply
  47. Peacewalker

    Wow. What an absolute load of crap! Even cursory investigation would have disclosed that female orgasm results in uterine contractions that literally reach out and pull in sperm. Therefore the functional purpose of a female orgasm (which by necessity must only result from more intimate knowledge of that particular women, and therefore comes about due to greater intimacy in terms of relationship and commitment between the pairs) is to increase the likelihood that a pregnancy will result.

    Elementary reproductive biology. And your "studies" did not know this?

    By all means, lets keep perpetuating the myth that women's pleasure and satisfaction is secondary of that of men. Wow.

    October 13, 2011 at 23:01 | Report abuse | Reply
  48. beowoofwoof

    AMAZING........they were able to find 10,000 maile/female twins in Finland

    October 14, 2011 at 06:54 | Report abuse | Reply
  49. teresa


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  50. clumsygirl

    don't be silly any more.
    women never have the ability to get multiple orgasms.
    women also have refratory period after every real orgasm, and then they need to sleep immediately.

    October 19, 2011 at 00:49 | Report abuse | Reply
    • LuckyGuy

      Trust me, this is not true.

      October 20, 2011 at 16:04 | Report abuse |
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