Female infidelity: It's different from the guys
April 7th, 2011
08:29 AM ET

Female infidelity: It's different from the guys

Ian Kerner, a sexuality counselor and New York Times best-selling author, blogs about sex on Thursdays on The Chart. Read more from him at his website, GoodInBed.

In a committed relationship nothing hurts more, or is harder to recover from, than infidelity, and this is even truer when it’s the female partner who’s been doing the cheating.  In recent years I’ve noticed a precipitous rise in the number of men who have been betrayed by adultery, and while there’s an overall consensus among professionals that female infidelity is on the rise, the trend doesn’t garner nearly as much attention as male infidelity  That’s surprising, because female infidelity is often much more damaging to a marriage. Don’t get me wrong: Male cheating is definitely harmful. But when a woman fools around, it’s often the death knell to a couple’s relationship.

It's often said that men cheat for sex, while women cheat for love, the theory being that men can more easily compartmentalize sex and emotion, while women typically need to experience an emotional connection to a person before feeling sexual desire. Without those pesky emotions to stand in the way of a potential mistake, a guy is much more likely to get himself into trouble (especially if alcohol is involved and inhibitions are down) or to get involved with someone for whom he has no feelings.

That’s not to say that men don't cheat  because they're unhappy, in search of an emotional connection or simply bored in their relationship (a topic we’re currently analyzing at Good in Bed), but  many of the men I've encountered who have cheated on their wives often have no desire to leave their primary relationship. Many of them even characterize themselves as happily married with satisfying sex lives.

That’s one of the reasons there's often a better chance that a couple will stay together and try to work things out when it’s the man who’s doing the cheating, rather than the woman. For men, cheating often tends to be opportunistic—they’re in the wrong place at the wrong time and the cheating doesn’t necessarily mean anything emotionally—whereas with women the desire to cheat is often less opportunistic and more deeply felt.  It’s often more a matter of the heart than of the genitals. Sure, some women cheat for the sex, but many also cheat for another chance at love, or to confirm to themselves that their primary relationship is really over. A woman who cheats is often a woman who doesn't want to work it out. She's already invested time trying to work it out, and she's done. It's too late.

While there aren't any hard statistics on female infidelity, most experts agree that it's on the rise, especially among women who have their own careers and a degree of financial independence. A University of Washington study found that people who earned $75,000 or more per year were 1.5 times more likely to have had extramarital sex than those earning less than $30,000. And with so many women in the workplace, it’s no surprise that  among the spouses who cheated, 46 percent of women and 62 percent of men did so with someone they met through work.

Another big factor in the rise in female infidelity is the Internet. Sexual infidelity often starts with emotional infidelity, and digital technologies offer an abundance of opportunity for emotional (and thrilling) connections: The return of an ex, a workplace flirtation, a Facebook friendship that becomes more than "just friends."  Women are extremely susceptible to “emotional infidelity,” which starts as friendship, often with colleagues or seemingly harmless online relationships, and slowly progresses to something more. A gradual blurring of the lines between friendship and deeper intimacy draws even happily partnered people into relationships they never saw coming.

So what are some of the signs that a woman could be cheating or thinking about it?

–         She shows less general interest in her partner's comings and goings

–         She dresses up for work, but seems to care less about whether her partner finds her attractive

–         She has less interest in sex with her partner

–         She's keeping an irregular schedule and spending more time at work

–         She seems happy, except when she's around her partner

–         She shows less tolerance of her partner's friends and family

–         There are unresolved issues in the relationship that have either been ignored or not resolved in a way that's satisfying to her

–         She's in a child-centric marriage that prioritizes parenting and neglects a couple's relationship, with few opportunities for romance and alone time

Guys, think your wife would never cheat? Think again. When men get angry about something, they tend to lash out, but women often self-silence and bottle up their emotions. As Helen E. Fisher, research professor of anthropology at Rutgers University, says, "Men want to think women don't cheat, and women want men to think they don't cheat, and therefore the sexes have been playing a little psychological game with each other."  Maybe this isn’t so much a game as a reflection of the double standard and culture of forgiveness that favors men—“boys will be boys,” as the adage goes—when they cheat. But as we’re learning, cheating is an equal opportunity sport, one that women are just as likely as men to play.

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  15. Micky

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    wonder-working magical know how of the universe and its laws are magnified
    within a structure so unique it’s impossible to find anywhere. Again, thank
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    March 14, 2013 at 20:18 | Report abuse | Reply
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    March 15, 2013 at 18:43 | Report abuse | Reply
  18. Tumi

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    March 22, 2013 at 16:35 | Report abuse | Reply
    • mariojack50

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      March 23, 2013 at 19:12 | Report abuse |
  19. mariojack50

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    March 23, 2013 at 19:13 | Report abuse | Reply
  20. Amelia

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    March 27, 2013 at 07:58 | Report abuse | Reply
  21. Johnson

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    March 28, 2013 at 19:17 | Report abuse | Reply
  22. Joyce

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    March 28, 2013 at 19:21 | Report abuse | Reply
  23. Geminal

    My name is Geminal from berjin.This site has pave way for me to meet a man that actually helped me get my ex back. I saw different testimonies of different spell casters on this site, and I decide to choose two out of the many of them to see if their spell is real. I am testifying back now that JOHN SPELL is a powerful spell caster, his spell works for me just within 3days. My ex is back and we are living together happily. Thanks to you lakutaspelltemple@yahoo.com. You have really proven to me that these testimonies about you is real.CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS:lakutaspelltemple@yahoo.com CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS

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  24. weisteger

    Am weisteger from Germany, there is a spell caster i saw his info online, his email is templeofloved@gmail.com, i tried contacting this is the great man and he help me solve all my problem he helped me bring back my ex girl friend back whom i cheated on and at thesame timehe helped me got a good job he is realy a great spell caster to rely on, I believe he can help you solve any kind of problem if you can contact him. I know you would surely have doubt like i did, but as i gave in a little faith to his work, things changed for good.

    April 10, 2013 at 06:07 | Report abuse | Reply
  25. Mr Drake

    Hello everybody my name is Mr Drake a love spell caster helped me and he made me to be me again. i never believe that me and my ex will ever be together as one again ever since she broke up with me, i tried to be with someone else but it was not that ease for me, last Wednesday i was search looking for advice on how i can get my ex back then i came across a spell caster profile called Dr lakuta, i contacted him for help and i told him the only woman that makes me happy just up with me 2weeks ago, he assured me that my lover will come back to within some days once he cast the spell i thought it was going to take like 5days or weeks but after he finish casting to my greatest surprise my ex came back to after 2days, i'm so happy that's why i'm giving his contact address out lakutaspelltemple@yahoo.com also in case you need his help.

    April 11, 2013 at 23:26 | Report abuse | Reply
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    Hi everyone I will never forget the help the ophantemple render to me in my marital life.
    i have been married for 5 years now and my husband and I love each other very dearly .
    after 3 years of our marriage my husband suddenly change he was having an affair with a lady outside, I notice it then i was praying for divine intervention it was become more serious i told my pastor about it we prayed but nothing happen.
    my husband just came home one day he pick up his things and left me and the kids to his mistress outside at this time i was confuse not knowing what to do again because i have lost my husband and my marriage too. i was just checking my mails in the office when I saw someone sharing her testimony on how the orphan temple help her out with her marital problems so I contacted the email of orphan temple
    i told him my problem and i was told to be calm that i have come to the right place that i should fill some information concerning my self i did after 30 minus i he called me again congratulating me that my problems will be solve within 48 hours.
    he told me what went wrong with my husband and how it happen. that they will restored my marriage but i will make a free donation to their orphanage home anything my heart told me then I sow a little seed'. to my greatest surprise my husband came to my office begging me on his knees that i should find a place in my heart to forgive him I quickly ask him up that i have forgiven him. Friends your case is not too hard why don’t you give orphan temple a try they work surprises because i know they will also bring back your husband. Contact him via ophanprayertemple@gmail.com.

    April 21, 2013 at 04:11 | Report abuse | Reply
  27. Nancy

    My name is Nancy,I have been through hell and pain,looking for a good and real spell caster who can help me get my boyfriend back.I have been scammed so many times,by some who claimed to be real spell casters.until i found the real and great spell caster (DR.OLOKUN) who helped me,and solved all my problems concerning my boyfriend who left me since eight months ago.and after that i also took my friend along,who was also having the same problem concerning her husband,who left her since five months ago,and the problem was also solved by the same DR.OLOKUN. Cant you see! the real and great spell caster is here,all you need to do now is to contact him when ever you are in any problem related to spell casting.It took me a very long period of time,before i could get this real and great spell caster.So right now is here,and the best for you to solve your problems all thanks goes to priestolokun@yahoo.com tel.+2348182743275

    April 21, 2013 at 06:18 | Report abuse | Reply
  28. Christian

    i just want to say a big thank you to DR.OLOKUN for what he has done for me,He brought back the man i loved and cherish with all my heart,A man who left me for another woman for good 3 years,with 2 kids,i just decided to check some spell caster's But all kept deceiving me,Until i meant DR.OLOKUN,Who told me everything will be over i taught he was also a scam,until he told me that my ex will be back in 2 days time.Am so grateful today that my ex is back to me and we are happy and he always wanna be by my side,I will advice you people not to fall in the wrong hands but to contact DR.OLOKUN who his trustworthy and straight forward,You can contact him via priestolokun@yahoo.com tel.+2348182743275.Christian

    April 21, 2013 at 06:36 | Report abuse | Reply
  29. jane

    What a wonderful and a straight forward spell caster that has brought back joy and happiness into my life after i saw a post on how he helped a lady called Cassandra,i decided to contact him for help when i told this God sent man Dr agbebaku on how my lover left me for 2 years without calling nor texting me,When i shared this my sad experience with Dr agbebaku he said everything would be okay within 2 days i was like am i sure what this man is saying is real,So i decided to give a try and i what even surprised me the most at first i was also thinking he was a scam i taught he was like other spell caster who come online to add pain to peoples pain not knowing there feelings but to make money,But this great man Dr agbebaku is never like that his own is for good and make people to be happy with the one they love,Am just so happy,Even before the 3 days i just got a call from a man who has left me for 2 years saying he his sorry and that he wants me back to his life i was so happy,He invited me for a dinner which i meant him there and we bought talked and he said he wants to prove that he would never leave me for any other lady he engaged me and also make me had access to all his account am so happy all thanks goes to this great man Dr agbebaku a man who has brought back joy to my life,Please friends that needs help i would advice and swear that Dr agbebaku is the right man and not those fake ones who are online to make money and not to help here is Dr agbebaku private mail agbebakuspellcaster@hotmail.com

    April 22, 2013 at 11:33 | Report abuse | Reply
  30. KATE

    Hello I am Kate Moore ,I am out here to spreed this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex love back.I was going crazy when my love left me for another girl last month, But when i meet a friend that introduce me to Dr. Ofure the great messenger to the oracle that he serve,I narrated my problem to Dr. Ofure about how my ex love left me and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it was been done,In the next 2 days,My love called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my love called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact Dr.Ofure at the following email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve..Contact him direct on: spellcast5temple@gmail.com...... Here is his mobile , +2347055470055........

    April 23, 2013 at 13:02 | Report abuse | Reply
  31. deboral

    After being in relationship with him for nine years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email is ( SPELLCASTTEMPLE4@GMAIL.COM } tel.+2348156885231) you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything.Margareta

    April 23, 2013 at 15:54 | Report abuse | Reply
  32. jennifer

    Dr Odumdu is really a great spell caster he brought back my lover back in just 2days after six months of me and my lover been apart he is really helpful you can reach him on his email address for any kind of help on (landofsolution@gmail.com) Dr Odumdu you are the best i will always give you thanks or better still you his phone number +2347053319835

    April 24, 2013 at 08:25 | Report abuse | Reply
  33. rose

    Hello readers My name is rose i live in spain, such amazing a wonderful and powerful real spell caster that help me bring my husband back and win my luv, and also help me for a new job before four days . Dont be worried in any kind of problem you are facing today is for you to know this real spell caster that can help you out, DR Alex Okhiria. To Email him asemotaspiritualspelltemple@gmail.com, i was married to desmond since six years having two kid for him, later on desmond was behaving strange and not even caring for the family again even insist for a divoice i was confuse because i also lost my job,i dont no what to do i cry and cry every day because i love desmond and i dont want to loose him, i cry to a friend of mine who introduce me to Dr Alex okhiria a powerful real spell caster who cast a spell for me before four days i got a new job, and my husband also come back to me he neel down and started beging saying that i should forgive him it was just like a dream to me. TO EMAIl OR CONTACT him asemotaspiritualspelltemple@gmail.com. Once again a very big thank to Dr Alex okhiria for his good worlk.

    April 25, 2013 at 18:18 | Report abuse | Reply
  34. Tanny Morck

    My friends out there, am Tanny Morck from usa, am short of words i dont know where to start from, am just happy for getting back my love who left me for good 3years without calling or texting, i was in love with this boy named Patrick, we live together in love but suddenly he just changed and was in bad terms with me i know i never did anything wrong to him but he just decided to quite with me and the most painful part was that he was the one who broke my virginity so i love him so much but he never understood the love i have for him, so that was how he move away from New york, to San jose ca, and he never called me or texted for good 3years, his thought always come to my mind every minutes, so i have been looking for how to get him back to my life,so i have been contacting some spell casters happens to be scams, so i decided not to contact any spell caster,so there was a day i went to go and buy some papers, because am a reading type, so that was how i turned to a page and i saw testimony of love so i decided to read it then i saw how a man named Hudson was helped by Dr okpa in getting back his love,and i read that he also said it in radio stations,so i decided to wait if i will hear the testimony on radio too, so 2 days later i was watching television when i saw a man named harry was giving testimony on how this same Dr okpa brought back his wife and 2kids, i was so surprised then i had no doubt, immediately i contacted Dr okpa and i told him what i want he to me not to worry that he my love will come back to me within 24hours, i did not doubt him cause i have seen prove, so in the next 24hours which he said i got a call from Patrick he was pleading and begging me to forgive him, so the next day he came to my house in New york, in the presence of my 2 sisters he went on his knees pleading for me to forgive him, so i had to, then he said we should move to San jose ca, to stay, am writing this testimony in San jose ca,and am pregnant for him,and he bought me a new car and am happy now,you can contact dr okpa through okpatempleofsolution@gmail.com or cell number +2348056563186 for Help.

    April 27, 2013 at 22:38 | Report abuse | Reply
  35. blessing

    My Dear friends online, My name is nalis From uk, I have to give this miraculous testimony, which is so unbelievable until now. I had a problem with my Ex husband 28hus ago, which lead to our break up. I was not my self again, i felt so empty inside me, my love and financial situation became worst, until a close friend of mine told me about a spell caster who helped her in the same problem too his name is dr ogboni.I email the spell caster and i told him my problem and i did what he asked of me, to cut the long story short. Before i knew what was happen in less than two days my husband gave me a call and told me that he was coming back to me i was happy to have him back to me. The most interesting part of the story is that am pregnant.Thanks to dr ogboni for saving my marriage and for also saving others own too. Continue your good work, If you are interested to contact the great spell caster email address ogbonispelitemple@hotmail.com you are the best among all the spell caster online that I know.

    April 28, 2013 at 00:13 | Report abuse | Reply
  36. Evie

    I used mukumukushrine@gmail.com in 2012 and the results were out with the way he told me it will be. he was always there to answer emails or queries that I had and to put my mind at ease. he encouraged me to be positive and his love and devotion really helped me to bring back my lost lover who left me some years ago for anotther woman. I would have no hesitation in using his services again,email to contact him is mukumukushrine@gmail.com.

    April 28, 2013 at 10:50 | Report abuse | Reply
  37. ANNE

    Hey, i just confirm a real spell caster lately. all the stories and testimonies about this man Dr EROS MUDIA are all true and real. i read testimonies about him on net and i tried him too to get my husband back who left me 2years ago and settle down with another lady. Dr EROS MUDIA did a spell for me and my run away husband came back home to stay and remain with his family. Dr EROS MUDIA is the most genuine spell caster ever, run to him now via his email Dr.erosmudia@gmail.com. ANNE BEN.

    April 28, 2013 at 17:44 | Report abuse | Reply
  38. Gerard Prescott


    AM Gerard Prescott from South Africa...
    I want to use this medium to inform the world that there
    is a wonderful man who can help you solve any problem you
    are facing without taking any penny from you,for instance problem
    PENIS,GET YOUR EX BACK,LOSE YOUR WEIGHT,Help you get pregnant,
    even,cast a spell for you to win any court case
    help you WIN A VISA LOTTERY,his name is OGA ABIDU OR simply
    contact him on his private email..Ogaabidutemple@gmail.com.he can
    change your life for good from any part of the globe.

    April 29, 2013 at 05:53 | Report abuse | Reply

    HELLO to everyone,This is my greatest testimony in my LIFE Ever.

    I want to testify of what a spell caster did for me and my hubby.we have been married since 2007 without a sign of pregnancy or conceiving.I went off birth control then and did not have a period.my gyro gave me progesterone to jump-start a period and it did.,but i did not have another one.we did another round of progesterone followed by 100mg clomid for 5 months,we followed all doctors instructions but all to no avail.I have been buying ovulation kits pregnancy test AND i finally got 3 test when i was ovulating! So ever since that we been trying for years now! Well i was very confused because i keep taking ept test AND they all keep turning out to b negative! I really want a baby girl while my hubby want a baby boy LOLL! I think maybe we are just trying to hard, What i can tell you is that its been so many years now and i still yet do not have my period??nobody to help because every body around us was already at the verge of losing their faith on us.no were to run to until one faithful day i was reading a magazine and i stumble on a page were i found topic or a head line {A SPELL CASTER} who can heal someone from HIV AND AIDS,bring back your EX,enlarge your BREAST,help you win a VISA LOTTERY,losing your WEIGHT and even get six PACKS AND flatten your BELLY,I gave him a try and before i could no it PROPHET BOLIVAR rescue me from my problem by casting a spell for me and told me to go and make love with my hubby,then nine months after the spell and making love with my husband i delivered a twins A BOY AND A GIRL.This spell caster name is PROPHET BOLIVAR so many people have witness his wonderful work..He is nice, contact him on ODUNGASPELL@GMAIL.COM if you are in any predicament•Thanks so very much!!

    April 29, 2013 at 05:54 | Report abuse | Reply
  40. kelive

    Hi! I am kelive from USA,You guys cast a Retrieve A Lover Spell for me back in February. And I'd like to thank you for it. My ex and I have been back together for a month now. And it's been even better than before. I think this time it's forever. We've been talking of moving in together, and maybe getting married in the future. Things between us are great. I thank you for helping to bring him back to me. After our time apart, we've learned to appreciate each other more, and not take anything for granted. Thank you. Prophet after trying and failling through other spell casters and witch doctors i had lost hope , but i thank God for giving me the ability to find you to solve my problems i now can't imagine that my business is doing better than i thought and i will always live to praise you, i recommend any of you who is passing through my old situation to contact the great spell caster on email azizaspelltemple@yahoo.com


    April 29, 2013 at 21:23 | Report abuse | Reply
  41. cindy

    He brought back my ex,
    my name is micheal from america,i had a problem with my wife sometimes ago but never knew what the problem was,i tried to asked her but she refused to tell me what it was as time goes on i discovered she was having an affair with a friend of mine that happens to be my best friend,i was so sad that i never knew what to do next,during my search for a way out i met a friend of mine who had similar problem and introduced me to a man who helped him with his situation,on getting to the man i discovered he was a spell caster i was shocked because i have not had anything to do with a spell caster in my entire life so i tried to give this man a chance cos i never believed in spell casting as i thought it will not work for me but to my surprise i got
    positive results and i was able to get my wife back from him even after the spell caster did all i discovered my wife fell much more in love with me on like before so i was so happy that i never know what to do for him so i am using this opportunity to tell anyone having similar problem visit or contact prophetoyinbojesus@yahoo.com.....He will surely solve your problems temple

    April 29, 2013 at 21:25 | Report abuse | Reply
  42. Vanessa

    I never believe in spells and magic until I experienced one some times ago and it really worked for me.I was in love with this guy and he is in love with me too for 3years and we making preparations to get married but to my surprise,his parents didn't want his hand in the marriage because of the religion difference.I was about loosing my man to another lady under the influence of his parents until, I met a spell caster on net that claimed he can help me out.He helped me cast a very strong spell that helped change his parents mind and i noticed also that my man love for me has greatly increased.We are happily married now with kids.People with similar problems can contact the spell caster on (dragagaspiritualspelltemple@gmail.com)

    April 30, 2013 at 06:20 | Report abuse | Reply
  43. julie

    I am Julie From Canada,Now I strongly believe in the saying that what a man can do a woman can do better,I was looking for love spell to bring back my EX for the past 11 month's and i tried over 4 spell caster from Africa and non was able to get my Ex back until l I get in-contact with MAMA ANITA who did what
    I called Black magic.and now my EX has fully return back to me and there is more romance in my relationship please if any one have suffer from the hand of
    spell caster's and he or she is looking for love spell then MAMA ANITA is the solution to your problem you can reach her at this EmailID.....mama.anitatruelovespell@gmail.com

    May 1, 2013 at 21:50 | Report abuse | Reply
  44. julie

    I am Julie From Canada,Now I strongly believe in the saying that what a man can do a woman can do better,I was looking for love spell to bring back my EX for the past 11 month's and i tried over 4 spell caster from Africa and non was able to get my Ex back until l I get in-contact with MAMA ANITA who did what I called Black magic.and now my EX has fully return back to me and there is more romance in my relationship please if any one have suffer from the hand of spell caster's and he or she is looking for love spell then MAMA ANITA is the solution to your problem you can reach her at this EmailID.....mama.anitatruelovespell@gmail.com

    May 1, 2013 at 21:51 | Report abuse | Reply
  45. Andy Sowers

    this is the great man that help me bring back my wife back to me I never believed that this man can help me bring back my wife until I met this special spell caster when i contact this man called DODO Execute some business..He is really powerful..My wife divorce me with no reason for almost 3 years and i tried all i could to have her back cos i really love her so much but all my effort did not work out.. we met at our early age at the college and we both have feelings for each other and we got married happily for 3 years with no kid and she woke up one morning and she told me she's going on a divorce..i thought it was a joke and when she came back from work she tender to me nd after that he helped me with a pregnancy spell and my wife got pregnant a month later..we are now happy been together again and with lovely kid..This spell caster has really changed my life and i will forever thankful to him..he has helped many friends too with similar problem too and they are happy and thankful to him..This man is indeed the most powerful spell caster have ever experienced in life..Am Posting this to the Forum in case there is anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way out..you can reach him here dodoplaceofservation@yahoo.com
    a divorce letter and she packed all her loads from my house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have her back but all did not work out..i was lonely for almost 3 years.So when i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for her full name and her picture..i gave him that..At first i was skeptical but i gave it a try .so when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that she's with a man and that man is the reason why she left me.The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring her back.but i never believe all this.he told me i will see a positive result within 2 days..2 days later,she called me herself and came to me apologizing and she told me she will come back to me..I cant believe this,it was like a dream cos i never believe this will work out.The spell caster is so powerful a

    May 2, 2013 at 09:46 | Report abuse | Reply
  46. MRS MARY


    i am Mary from the united state, I want to say this explicitly for its of a surprise that regardless of the internet fraud, i could still meet some one this genuine, am not here to talk on relationship, so don’t be in the offing to hear that, but its something supplementary, for i seeked for a endorsement in my office for the past one year, but my boss asked me to lay with him, or no promotion, when i met dr dumedu he cast a spell for me and ask me to go to work and see what will happen, i went to work and saw my letter of endorsement waiting for me on my desk, just like that, i was so amazed, but i owe him the thanks….go to him for he will be of assistance, and please try to give him the chance he needs, for a chance might change your whole life…dumeduspelltemple@gmail.com

    May 3, 2013 at 22:23 | Report abuse | Reply
  47. jennifer

    I am just letting you know that I have had positive results from purityspell@gmail.com . My husband has been at home everyday and has been staying out of the bars! things are now better for the two of us. I truly thank him for this! Your spell kit for the return your lover is very powerful! I was working with someone else in the past but, your help is truly appreciated, I will always come to you! .....Jenifer

    May 4, 2013 at 07:10 | Report abuse | Reply
  48. judith

    I don’t know how to thank you DR.UWAWA . Because, you truly came
    through for me when you with your love spell. I finally hit the
    lottery last Friday thanks to your lottery spell and my man came back
    on Father’s Day. When I opened that door, I felt like I could have
    fainted when I saw him holding a bouquet of roses and wishing me Happy
    Mother’s Day. I haven’t seen him in 5 months and you did that love
    spell 6 days ago. That is fast!..We talked a while and he came clean
    and told me about the other woman and he broke up with her. He really
    wants us to be together and he told me how much he misses me and wants
    to be with me..” you can contact him with this email address at druwawaspellcasttemple or call his mobile number +2348105150302 for any kind of help.

    May 4, 2013 at 10:20 | Report abuse | Reply
  49. Ebonie McCloud

    My name is Ebonie McCloud, My partner and I have been trying for a baby for over two years now, We were going to a fertility clinic for about 9 months before somebody told us to contact this spell caster who is so powerful, We contacted him at this email; dovasagawhitemagictemple@yahoo.com , for him to help us, then we told him our problem, he told us that she we either conceive in January 2013 or February 2013,but after two years of trying we were at a point where we were willing to try anything. And I'm glad we came to Dr. Dova Saga, Because he predictions put us at ease, and I honestly believe him, and his gods really helped us as well, I am thankful for all he has done. If you are in this kind of problem i will advice you to contact him with this email: dovasagawhitemagictemple@yahoo.com web site: http://www.dovasagawhitemagictemple.webs.com. Thanks

    May 5, 2013 at 06:16 | Report abuse | Reply
  50. enburg

    I was having serious relationship problems with my husband and it had resulted in him moving out.Everything got worse,he started going to strip clubs frequently,getting drunk and passing out..Sometimes when we talked on phone,he would threaten me,he was just not himself and our children were suffering for all the drama. I really love him and we had been married for 15yrs which gave us three beautiful daughters..I had also lost a lot of money on therapists and spell-casters..I was in debt and I felt my world crumbling..I was introduced to a spell caster by a friend who he helped with the same thing and I thought it was just a scam all over again but this time it was different..I did all he asked me to and after a few days,he started getting better,he started calling,texting,things just changed between us,emotions,our love.He has a job and has been sober since and am also out of debt..Its a miracle I never believed was possible,I had lost all hope until I found him..He works and if you have the same problem I did,he is the solution:templeofloved@gmail.com

    May 6, 2013 at 03:58 | Report abuse | Reply
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