Female infidelity: It's different from the guys
April 7th, 2011
08:29 AM ET

Female infidelity: It's different from the guys

Ian Kerner, a sexuality counselor and New York Times best-selling author, blogs about sex on Thursdays on The Chart. Read more from him at his website, GoodInBed.

In a committed relationship nothing hurts more, or is harder to recover from, than infidelity, and this is even truer when it’s the female partner who’s been doing the cheating.  In recent years I’ve noticed a precipitous rise in the number of men who have been betrayed by adultery, and while there’s an overall consensus among professionals that female infidelity is on the rise, the trend doesn’t garner nearly as much attention as male infidelity  That’s surprising, because female infidelity is often much more damaging to a marriage. Don’t get me wrong: Male cheating is definitely harmful. But when a woman fools around, it’s often the death knell to a couple’s relationship.

It's often said that men cheat for sex, while women cheat for love, the theory being that men can more easily compartmentalize sex and emotion, while women typically need to experience an emotional connection to a person before feeling sexual desire. Without those pesky emotions to stand in the way of a potential mistake, a guy is much more likely to get himself into trouble (especially if alcohol is involved and inhibitions are down) or to get involved with someone for whom he has no feelings.

That’s not to say that men don't cheat  because they're unhappy, in search of an emotional connection or simply bored in their relationship (a topic we’re currently analyzing at Good in Bed), but  many of the men I've encountered who have cheated on their wives often have no desire to leave their primary relationship. Many of them even characterize themselves as happily married with satisfying sex lives.

That’s one of the reasons there's often a better chance that a couple will stay together and try to work things out when it’s the man who’s doing the cheating, rather than the woman. For men, cheating often tends to be opportunistic—they’re in the wrong place at the wrong time and the cheating doesn’t necessarily mean anything emotionally—whereas with women the desire to cheat is often less opportunistic and more deeply felt.  It’s often more a matter of the heart than of the genitals. Sure, some women cheat for the sex, but many also cheat for another chance at love, or to confirm to themselves that their primary relationship is really over. A woman who cheats is often a woman who doesn't want to work it out. She's already invested time trying to work it out, and she's done. It's too late.

While there aren't any hard statistics on female infidelity, most experts agree that it's on the rise, especially among women who have their own careers and a degree of financial independence. A University of Washington study found that people who earned $75,000 or more per year were 1.5 times more likely to have had extramarital sex than those earning less than $30,000. And with so many women in the workplace, it’s no surprise that  among the spouses who cheated, 46 percent of women and 62 percent of men did so with someone they met through work.

Another big factor in the rise in female infidelity is the Internet. Sexual infidelity often starts with emotional infidelity, and digital technologies offer an abundance of opportunity for emotional (and thrilling) connections: The return of an ex, a workplace flirtation, a Facebook friendship that becomes more than "just friends."  Women are extremely susceptible to “emotional infidelity,” which starts as friendship, often with colleagues or seemingly harmless online relationships, and slowly progresses to something more. A gradual blurring of the lines between friendship and deeper intimacy draws even happily partnered people into relationships they never saw coming.

So what are some of the signs that a woman could be cheating or thinking about it?

–         She shows less general interest in her partner's comings and goings

–         She dresses up for work, but seems to care less about whether her partner finds her attractive

–         She has less interest in sex with her partner

–         She's keeping an irregular schedule and spending more time at work

–         She seems happy, except when she's around her partner

–         She shows less tolerance of her partner's friends and family

–         There are unresolved issues in the relationship that have either been ignored or not resolved in a way that's satisfying to her

–         She's in a child-centric marriage that prioritizes parenting and neglects a couple's relationship, with few opportunities for romance and alone time

Guys, think your wife would never cheat? Think again. When men get angry about something, they tend to lash out, but women often self-silence and bottle up their emotions. As Helen E. Fisher, research professor of anthropology at Rutgers University, says, "Men want to think women don't cheat, and women want men to think they don't cheat, and therefore the sexes have been playing a little psychological game with each other."  Maybe this isn’t so much a game as a reflection of the double standard and culture of forgiveness that favors men—“boys will be boys,” as the adage goes—when they cheat. But as we’re learning, cheating is an equal opportunity sport, one that women are just as likely as men to play.

« Previous entry
soundoff (4,461 Responses)
  1. MsDonna

    I was cheated on, then became the cheater. Either side sucks to be on. And never say never. I thought I would never ever get cheated on because I was the perfect wife ( or so I thought ) and I definately NEVER could cheat on anyone. Ended up having a 3 year affair and still trying to get rid of the guy that I cheated with. I want nothing to do with him or my husband. They are both losers.... I am learning to be happy within myself and not count on any man to make me happy. Masterb*tion is becoming my best friend.

    April 22, 2011 at 19:33 | Report abuse | Reply
    • nomarteddy

      two weeks ago i and my boyfriend had a conflict, so with that he broke up with me saying he no longer wanted to associate with me anymore, i never knew he was interested in working out his marriage with another girl, i was helpless because i loved him so much morethan myself, after begging and pleading with him I realized it was out of my hands, he really was leaving me, i could not stay without him, i tried to figure things out with him but he is not listening me, he told me that he is no longer interested that i should look for someone else, i tried all my best but things were not working out, so i had no choice than to look around for help, i went into search of spell caster to help me bring him back to me with the help of spell and after searching i actually finalize to work with prophetharry@ymail.com in regards of my lover. after 3 days as he told that my lover will return. my lover returned in surprising way, i was chocked and was so happy I can't say how much I'm grateful, My lover not only came back to me, but has left his other girl and now has engaged me, we are getting married next month, I don't know what I would have done without this spell caster.

      September 7, 2012 at 12:32 | Report abuse |
  2. LEB

    Men can leave a cheating partner because they are more often the breadwinner. Women often have to stay because they earn less (or nothing if they've been a SAHM), and because I think women feel more guilt about breaking up families.

    So really, it all comes down to money. Oddly, though, the more money a couple collectively has, the lower their risk of infidelity. Same goes with greater education and if they both have careers. I think that when a couple is educated, financially comfortable, and more or less equals in both regards, there is greater respect within the relationship and a greater likelihood of trying to FIX problems rather than committing the selfish act of cheating.

    April 23, 2011 at 01:00 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Mike

      Men leave their spouses more often after an affair.
      It is NOT due to money however, as most men's finances are worse after divorce.
      Men leave cheating wives because it destroys men mentally more than woman.
      This is not my opinion, it is a fact.

      May 12, 2011 at 17:06 | Report abuse |
    • Jacki

      But the article just said that women with higher incomes are the ones most likely to cheat.

      October 27, 2012 at 08:42 | Report abuse |
  3. dedicated husband

    Married women should read, The Proper Care and Feeding of a Husband. Sadly after kids, a house, etc. many married women particularly stay at home Moms loose sight of their husband's needs. When people get married they are supposed to put the other person before themselves, people who can't or won't do that are not bad they just should stay single.

    May 2, 2011 at 13:21 | Report abuse | Reply
  4. wowmowo

    o wow this is so true i have been doing all those signs i mean i am happy but when i am around my boyfriend its a different story i get al bitc** and dont wanna be by him and stare at other guys when i am with him the thing is we have a child together so i dont want to be the bad guy and leave him i wouldnt want my child to grow up and hate me cause i left his father and broke up our family..... hhmmmm

    May 5, 2011 at 15:54 | Report abuse | Reply
  5. Brittany

    I have recently been effected by infedelity. i just needed to know why he did it. what was so great about her. reading Susan Andersons book "Taiming Your Outer Child" i realized it was nothing that i did. Her book opened my eyes to the concept of an outer child. our outer child is something that controls our outer emotions. Its that little birdy that makes us over react or even under react. anyways her book was an inspiration to me and is helping my relationship. you can find her book on amazon. also you can follow her on twitter @Susan_Anderson_ and like her page on facebook

    May 12, 2011 at 20:37 | Report abuse | Reply
  6. xbox live codes for free

    Hi there! This is my 1st comment here so I just wanted to give a quick shout out and tell you I truly enjoy reading your blog posts. Can you recommend any other blogs/websites/forums that cover the same subjects? Thanks a ton!

    May 24, 2011 at 22:37 | Report abuse | Reply
    • lisa

      There's a website all about cheating statistics that you will find helpful : http://cheatingstatistics.com

      August 23, 2012 at 02:06 | Report abuse |
  7. Gr8telephant

    What I find is that when society 'over-generalize' about men–no one really minds. This is especially true if the over-generalization is negative towards men "Men are cheaters, deadbeat dads, jerks, etc". However, on the other hand, if there is even a SINGLE case of 'over-generalization' towards women, ie what is observed in this article that women cheat for emotional reasons, etc, it will immediately be attacked. I think this pretty prejudiced. Why do we tolerate these sorts of attacks at men, but not to women?

    Articles like these are written about men ALL THE TIME–about how they cheat, this and that, blah blah blah. No body really minds.

    May 26, 2011 at 15:31 | Report abuse | Reply
  8. sandradd

    Hi everybody,I recently saw a testimony about a spell caster of some sort in a blogI visit for relationship and marriage counselling problems and I justthought after ripped off the previous year of almost about $580, Ishould try it*maybe out of desperation of some sort*..and I contactedthem..Atfirst everything felt dreamy and unbelievable,theirconsultations and solution was a little bit easy and strange and I wasscared a little cos I heard read and heard lots of stories of fakespell casters and scammers ripping people off their money..I playedalong with a little hope and and faith and I was sent some few stuffsafter everything and it worked like a miracle,everything went to awhile new direction,it was and is amazing...I guess it was all goodfaith that made me read That particular post that faithful day..I hopethey could help other people too like they did me...I did a little andI got everything I wanted and wished for*my husband,my family and mylife back*their address is: odonmark11(at)gmail(dot)com.

    July 19, 2011 at 03:52 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Maddox

      Please contact me

      December 15, 2011 at 03:56 | Report abuse |
  9. Toy

    Ok, many may vehemently deny what I am about to say, but I think this is true. There is no way that men cheat on their wives, or that wives cheat on their husbands for no reason whatsoever, if they're relationship is going just the way they want. There is always a reason behind it. Men are not in touch with themselves emoitionally, so it makes since that they may not be able to identify the reason, or explain why they cheated, but there is a reason, be it the marriage (emotionally draining, boring, etc.) or the man (seeking validation, has a past as a 'player' etc.). Plus, women cheat for all kinds of reasons (his brother was visiting, etc.) so I don't see how it could be pegged as mostly emotional. However, I do think there is a psychological reason that any cheating goes on, be it physical or otherwise.

    August 21, 2011 at 01:19 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Jacki

      I agree that something has to be wrong in the relationship for cheating to occur.

      October 27, 2012 at 08:47 | Report abuse |
  10. divian

    THIS SPELL CASTER I MET ON THIS EMAIL ADDRESS EARTH_TEMPLE@YAHOO.COM, had a spell done for me, and the most surprising part was that the spell took only 3 days to manifest and I received the most powerful results one can imagine. earth_temple@yahoo.com spell caster is such a blessing. he is well worth the money as you won't find anyone that caring. he will make it happen for you.

    December 4, 2011 at 17:20 | Report abuse | Reply
  11. noah

    I want to share something with everyone here,
    It comes to a certain time that I used spellcasters, but no one has such a strong connection to spiritual powers. this spell caster i came across with on templeofancientancestors@gmail.com, did a love spell that worked more powerfully for me than any other spellcaster I had ever worked with. In fact, his results were so much better that I may never need another love spell again…I am asking my girlfriend to marry me! and another interesting thing is that she is not complete
    Thank you, ancient priest, for bringing love into my life and for being the best at what you do.
    Meet him he is great.

    December 4, 2011 at 17:45 | Report abuse | Reply
  12. Lilian

    If you and your ex-boyfriend broke up recently and he is seeing another woman, this is the correct love spell to order to bring him right back to you. If you are hurting and miss the love and affection the two of you once shared then you came to the right place. wiseindividualspell@gmail.com specializes in love spells to return your ex-boyfriend. You will get safe and fast results. You will be happy again as soon as he is back in your arms. this will keep the two of you together and keep everything on track. the binding Love Spell will block any further interference in your relationship. he was the one who helped me get my ex back. Lilia

    December 21, 2011 at 09:21 | Report abuse | Reply
  13. Divorce support groups boston

    Surviving numerous within marriage - how to deal with seeing the other person ; enduring numerous * nine recommendations on enduring cheating preventing the pain sensation immediately ;ADULTERY-2

    January 13, 2012 at 13:37 | Report abuse | Reply
  14. evenkn

    I was hurt when my man left last winter. And through a family member who told me they had help from Ancient Priest for there love problems. I had the a Love Spell, done and within a few short days, he came back to me and he calls me constantly throughout the day. I'm really pleased with Ancient Priest for the support, spells and attention that spell caster gave me.
    You can contact him on templeofancientancestors@gmail.com

    January 16, 2012 at 02:17 | Report abuse | Reply
  15. Stop divorce homer mcdonald

    Dealing with mistrust is among the hardest points you can are related within one's dedicated relationship or even marriage. The secret to problem management properly along with surviving ...infidelity survive

    January 19, 2012 at 21:14 | Report abuse | Reply
  16. elly

    My husband has abandon me and the kids for the the past 8months now, and refuse to come back because he was hold on by a woman whom he just met, for that, my self and the kids has been suffering and it has been heel of a struggle, but i decide to do all means to make sure that my family come together as it use to, then i went online there i saw so many good talk about this spell caster whose email address is lovesolutionspell@priest.com, so i had to contact him and in just 5days as he has promised, my husband came home and his behaviour was back to the man i got married to.

    I cant thank the spell caster enough what what he did for me, i am so greatful.
    I even spoke to the spell caster over the phone, to confirm his existence.
    His email again is lovesolutionspell@priest.com


    March 16, 2012 at 10:04 | Report abuse | Reply
  17. Anita

    I didn't ever believe in miracles, but since I contacted churchofnativevity@gmail.com called Prophet Aluts I have seen more miracles occur in my own life than I ever thought possible. My dearest love was in a car accident and partially paralyzed; he did not want to have anything to do with me because he felt he was a burden on me, and he "got lost" on purpose. I was bereft but knew I had to do something, so I contacted Prophet Aluta, whose spell brought my dearest back to me. He was just scared, and I know he never would have returned had it not been for him and his wise magic.

    March 25, 2012 at 09:30 | Report abuse | Reply
  18. Anderson

    If this hadn’t happened to me personally, I would never have believed it. But it did!!! I got a love spell from churchofnativevity@gmail.com and even with no one in particular in mind, he was able to throw something like a “love aura” all around me! I feel men’s eyes on me everywhere I go, and in a nice way. I have already accepted a date for this weekend from a man I used to work with and just “happened” to run into at the post office!! That’s no coincidence, in my book!!

    March 29, 2012 at 06:09 | Report abuse | Reply
  19. miss Sylvester

    miss Sylvester
    My MUM was always the person I turned to when I needed something. It was her advice I counted on, and her that I talked to about my most needful things. She died 3 months ago, and at first I was so lost without her I did not think I could function. But then I found DR MOON He has filled that empty hole in my heart from the loss of my mother. I can turn to him for guidance and spiritual advice. He is always available and he always cares. It’s not about money for him. Even better, I finally asked him to perform a love spell on me, and it worked!! I met a man who had also experienced a great loss and we were able to become close friends and provide support to each other. We have fallen in love and my life could not be better. Thank you, DR, MOON for helping me through the worst times of my life, for being such a great spell caster, and for giving me a love spell that has brought me so much joy. If you doubt his ability, trust me. You should take a chance. It pays off in ways you could never even imagine.Email him ayelalashrine2@gmail.com

    April 20, 2012 at 22:14 | Report abuse | Reply
  20. Lolita

    Thanks very much wiseindividualspell@gmail.com for the spell you cast for me.I am pleased to tell you that it worked great and I am now back with my husband and everything is okay. Thanks so much once again and will definitely order again in the future. Be blessed and keep up with the Good work.

    April 20, 2012 at 23:15 | Report abuse | Reply
  21. janevivi

    Nancy came back today and we have plans to go out tonight. Our relationship has never been better and when I look into her eyes I can tell that she really does love me. The spell I used was Falling to Eternal Love (I believe I have the name correct;)

    Without wildernessofspirit@gmail.com spells I still be without Nancy.

    April 24, 2012 at 18:15 | Report abuse | Reply
  22. Cassandra

    My name is Cassandra, and i live in California.I have been through hell and pain,looking for a good and real spell caster who can help me get my boyfriend back.I have been scammed so many times,by some who claimed to be real spell casters.until i found the real and great spell caster "Ebukashrinetemple" who helped me,and solved all my problems concerning my boyfriend who left me since eight months ago.and after that i also took my friend along,who was also having the same problem concerning her husband,who left her since five months ago,and the problem was also solved by the same "Ebukashrinetemple". Cant you see! the real and great spell caster is here,all you need to do now is to contact this same address whenever you are in any problem related to spell casting.It took me a very long period of time,before i could get this real and great spell caster.So right now "Ebukashrinetemple@gmail.com" is here,and the best for you to solve your problems.......
    Thanks..... My name is Cassandra, and i live in California.I have been through hell and pain,looking for a good and real spell caster who can help me get my boyfriend back.I have been scammed so many times,by some who claimed to be real spell casters.until i found the real and great spell caster "Ebukashrinetemple" who helped me,and solved all my problems concerning my boyfriend who left me since eight months ago.and after that i also took my friend along,who was also having the same problem concerning her husband,who left her since five months ago,and the problem was also solved by the same "Ebukashrinetemple". Cant you see! the real and great spell caster is here,all you need to do now is to contact this same address whenever you are in any problem related to spell casting.It took me a very long period of time,before i could get this real and great spell caster.So right now "Ebukashrinetemple@gmail.com" is here,and the best for you to solve your problems.......

    June 1, 2012 at 21:29 | Report abuse | Reply
  23. cassandra

    My Name is Ms. path tom, I was married to my husband for 13 years and we were both bless with three children, living together as one love, until 2009 when things was no longer the way the was [when he lost his job]. But when he later gets a new job 6 months after, he stated sleeping outside our matrimonial home. Only for me to find out that he was having an affair with the lady that gave he the job. since that day, when i called him, he don’t longer pick up my calls and he nothing since to come out good. Yet my husbands just still keep on seeing the lady. Until I met a very good friend of my who was also having a similar problem, who introduced me to a very good love spell caster. But i told her that if it has to do with things that i am not interested, but she said that it has nothing to do with pay first. but the only thing he was ask to do was just to go and buy the items to cast the spell, and that was what she did. And she gave me the spell caster e-mail address and phone number. When i contacted him, i was so surprise when he said that if i have the faith that i will get my husband back in the nest three [3] day, and off which it was really so. but i was so shock that i did not pay any thing to Dr.okogie but my husband was on his knells begging me and the children for forgiveness. This testimony is just the price i have to pay. This man okogie is good and he is the author of my happiness. His e-mail address okogiepowerfulspellcaster@yahoo.com

    June 9, 2012 at 10:44 | Report abuse | Reply
  24. Jada

    this is a spell caster I contacted 2weeks ago. he is really great. I have been scammed initially by other spell casters of almost a thousand of dollars. I am not rich, I work my ass for this hard earned money. But my sadness was turned to joy when I met Dr.Zack Balo he is really terrific and you will get results for whatever you are seeing he for within very few days. he is so honest and sticks to his promises. His contact is below: wiseindividualspell@gmail.com.

    June 15, 2012 at 21:04 | Report abuse | Reply
  25. Jacy

    Had to update you to let you know I won over $500,000 last week and today I won $1000,000 🙂 the spell is really taking effect now, remain bless wildernessofspirit@gmail.com

    June 21, 2012 at 02:35 | Report abuse | Reply
  26. Miss rose juckin

    my name is Miss rose juckin, I’m from Brazil. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is genuine and real.I never really believed i any of these things but when I was losing Jackson, I needed help and somewhere to turn badly. I found consultant.TEMPLE OF LIVE com and i ordered a LOVE SPELL. Several days later, my phone rang. Jackson was his old self again and wanted to come back to me! Not only come back, the spell caster opened him up to how much I loved and needed him. Spell Casting isn’t brainwashing, but they opened his eyes to how much we have to share together. I recommend anyone who is in my old situation to try it. It will bring you a wonderful surprises as well as your lover back to you. The way things were meant to be.” you can contact the spell caster on– Templeoflive@gmail.com he’s very nice and great.

    June 28, 2012 at 06:45 | Report abuse | Reply
  27. Andy Sowers

    An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me..
    My name is Andy Sowers,i live in Australia,and I'm happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids.A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife.so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce.she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she didn't love me anymore.So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again.
    So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife.So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.{supremelovespell@gmail.com}.
    So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who didn't call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster.
    So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website {supremelovespell@gmail.com},if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to "bringing your ex back.
    So thanks to the supremelovespellcaster for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again.

    July 3, 2012 at 15:54 | Report abuse | Reply

    My wife and I separated Last year September, I will agree I wasn't true to myself and her. But i did all I could let her have a good life I did put all my energy into our little family as we have 2 beautiful kids.because I worked As a waiter she didn't really like that for a career, she thought i didn't want to do well in my life. last year as the harsh finance situation hit as we've been suffering with our finance for a while she decided to end our marriage. which i was very devastated!! to lose the love of my life, but a month after separation i went to France for 10days to clear my head. when i got back she wanted me back but she didn't want romantic side of it a month after xmas she told me again that she cant do it anymore as our finance was at lowest. then we made a decision to end it to sort our lives out...but my prayer everyday for her to realize that i am not a loser all i wanted is to do what i could to put food on the table and roof over their head. since the second separation i am qualified football coach and fitness instructor and doing more toward my career but I don't want to get into a relationship with another woman when my wife and I suffered all of this years when my career takes of shes not there to enjoy it with me..I really want her back in my life so i contacted this spell caster CHIFE OGWA who now help me to bring her back, we now have a happy family together with my wife. If you want his help you reach him via email at ChifeOgwa@yahoo.com

    July 4, 2012 at 00:45 | Report abuse | Reply
  29. rosemark

    good day ladies and and gentle, men my name is miss rose jack am from us. i want to share this great tesimony to the general public and also use this means to advice every body to looking for a spell tp get his or her ex back there is a say which said that many are called but few are choosing , i was once married to this man called luis .for 2 yaers we were living happily together for theis two year i was so happy with he because he is the kind of man every woman will like. he so caring but for the two yaers we never fight each other until this bad morning i woke up to prepared his breakfast for he . but to my best suprise just came up with one issue thathappened last year on my birthday party ,this issue has been forgoting for sometimes now and he said he can,t continue with the marrieg anymore and he left i was so sad and confused cus i was having his 3 months old baby inside me i told he about it but he said i should go to hell for all he cares , i was so so confused then i went to tell this my friend susan and she told me he is going to come back to me and i said is a lie she introduce me to this great man call Dr ODIACO , of odiacotemple@yahoo.com) for me i nvver belived in spell in my life .but i have no other choice then i decided to give this man i try so i contacted he thruogh his mail and he said i should not cry that if the man is truly my with his power him will surely come back to me ,the spell dr, dr odiaco did this love for me and instruct me on how to go with is and i actually followed his instructions and after three days of which i do what he said i should do i got a messenge from luis asking how is our baby, i was suprise and i said to he i thought yousaid you dont care he replied saying it was out of anonyance.so he used that trick to carch my attention and come back to me and today and happy with my baby boy and also my husband luis .if you are out there passing through similar situation you can still contact this man today on his e_mail (odiacotemple@yahoo.com) my e mail is rosemark_9@hotmail.com

    July 24, 2012 at 12:21 | Report abuse | Reply
  30. patty

    I contacted wiseindividualspell@gmail.com, because someone that I loved the most suddenly left me. I have always been the one that has been hurt. I knew that when I first met him, he was the one I have always been looking for. For some reason he's been holding on to the pain from a past relationship. wiseindividualspell@gmail.com so far has been in contact with me every day and has decided that he will take my case. he told me that me and the guy was very well matched and he will help clear his mind from all the negativity. Thank you Dr.Zack Balo. Thank you for choosing my case. Thank you for giving me hope again. Im looking forward for the spell to be casted and to be happy again. I have full faith in you and what you can do. Thank you.

    July 25, 2012 at 23:25 | Report abuse | Reply
  31. get him back fast book reviews

    naturally like your web-site but you need to test the spelling on quite a few of your posts. Many of them are rife with spelling issues and I find it very troublesome to inform the reality however I will certainly come again again.

    July 30, 2012 at 04:33 | Report abuse | Reply
  32. what to do to get him back with you

    Great beat ! I wish to apprentice while you amend your web site, how could i subscribe for a blog website? The account helped me a applicable deal. I were tiny bit familiar of this your broadcast offered shiny clear idea

    July 31, 2012 at 14:10 | Report abuse | Reply
  33. enburg

    I recently saw a testimony about a spell caster of some sort in a blog I visit for relationship and dating counseling problems because i had been having serious issues with my boyfriend and we had been dating for six months,he just suddenly changed,he was returning my calls,he started cheating,he was hurting me in so many ways i never thought possible and I just thought I should try it*maybe out of desperation of some sort*..and I contacted them..At first everything felt dreamy and unbelievable,their consultations and solution was a little bit easy and strange and I was scared a little cos I heard read and heard lots of stories of fake spell casters,scams and i never really believed in magic..I played along with a little hope and and faith and I was sent some few stuffs after everything and it worked like a miracle,everything went to a while new direction,it was and is amazing...I guess it was all good faith that made me read That particular post that faithful day..I hope they could help other people too like they did me...I did a little and I got everything I wanted and wished for*my husband,my family and my life back*their address is; bishopjakesmore@gmail.com

    August 13, 2012 at 07:15 | Report abuse | Reply
  34. bolina

    I want to give testimony of how priest azula brought back my divorce husband back to me,were married for 9 years then we break up, due to the fact that he never love me again.
    i have many felling for this my ex because we have gotten 2 kids together and i will want us to come back again. but all way i tried for us to come back all went in vain. i was confused and sad because i needed him back into my life, so i decided to contact priest azula, i never believe in spell casting i just decide to make an effort and see if something can come out of it. i contacted them and they told me that they needed to cast return back of love to him, they did the spell and after 2 week my ex called that he still love me and wanted us to be together again,what surprise me most was that he was married to another woman, and after the spell casting he divorce the woman for me that same week. it was the spell i cast on him that brought him back again. we later got married again and now the kids are happy that their father is back to their mother again, i really thank this priest azula for bringing back my ex husband to me. i want you my fellow women who want back their divorce husband to contact priest azula for his return, do not lose hope you can make this great step as i did then your ex husband will come back to you. and also your ex wife too okay,
    his email address id is templeofhelp@gmail.com, i want you to contact him and he will solve your problem for you and also he can do any kind of spell you want to cast. templeofhelp@gmail.com

    August 18, 2012 at 13:52 | Report abuse | Reply
  35. enburg

    I and my boyfriend were seriously in love for three years and we were planning to get marry but one day she came to my house and told me she was no longer interested in our relationship simply because she was dating another rich man who promise to buy her a car and to sponsor their wedding. And i suffer heartbreak for five months and i was not tired of loving him.One faithful day as i was browsing through the internet, i saw a testimony on how a spell caster helped some one name BROWN to get back his wife after two years of losing his wife because he was no longer having a job. Through this Email...templeoflove1@gmail.com So i sent an email to templeoflove1@gmail.com for help and surprisingly my boy friend came back with the help of the spell caster and was begging to come back. and now we are happily married. His Email.....templeoflove1@gmail.com.

    August 21, 2012 at 08:14 | Report abuse | Reply
  36. mary

    My name is mary from Houston,Texas.i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in June last year on a business summit i met a man called Dr.black is powerful he helped me cast a spells that brings back my love,long gone misbehaving lover, should be case you are looking for some one to you bring back loves one,your lost money, and magic money spell or spell for a good job please don't forget to contact Dr.black. i m now happy & am a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 2 year i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try and in 6 days when i returned to taxes my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mum and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kids and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help email address helptemple@yahoo.com

    September 4, 2012 at 05:17 | Report abuse | Reply
    • Lylii

      After reading ur letter I contacted Priest Azula and sent him money today...we have exchanged few emails and he knows what I want and he say he can do it...I sent him email earlier to confirm that I sent the money he asked for and he replied that he is on way to get the money and then finalise my spell....I am waiting...:)

      September 17, 2012 at 09:15 | Report abuse |
  37. Regina lama

    My name is Regina lama. Am from U.S.A... Lord gbuka is a great spell caster he help me to bring back my lover in just 2days...you can contact his email via__lordgbukasherine34@gmail.com or call his number__+2348155698714..

    September 6, 2012 at 13:29 | Report abuse | Reply
  38. ruizlinder

    Hello friends I am Ruiz Linda from united state of America I want to tell every that I have found the real spell caster and that he have just helped me get my husband back to me and the kids. I met this spell through a friends description and he told me that he help him to get his wife back when another man took her from him and then I decided to try him out and I discover that he is the best and he is very powerful and just yesterday my husband whom I thought will never come back to me came and said to me that he was sorry for leaving me. I now so happy that my desires have been fulfilled. Thank to the priest of the hinduspelltemple@yahoo.com he is so powerful

    September 25, 2012 at 18:30 | Report abuse | Reply
  39. icons designs

    I can suggest to visit to you a site on which there are many articles on this question.

    October 4, 2012 at 14:18 | Report abuse | Reply
  40. mary

    My name is Mary,I live in Mexico,and I’m happily married with a lovely husband and three children. I had a very big problem with my husband few months ago,to the extent that he even packed her things away from me and my kids for almost 5 months,and i tried all my possible best and effort to bring her back,but all to no avail.I discussed it with a very good friend of mine,and he gave me an advice concerning a spell caster,and i quote.“There’s someone who can handle your situation,he’s always ready and able to do anything related to spell casting,i will like you to contact him with his email,which is as follows.”priest azula Great Oracle Temple Solution”. I never believed in spell casting,but he convinced me and i had no choice than to follow his advice,because i never dream t of loosing my lovely husband.And that’s how i contacted him with his email address,and i discussed with him and so surprisingly,he told me that I’ll get my wife back a day after.so i never believed,until when i got home,the next day,my husband called me to inform me that she was coming back…..So amazing!! That’s how i got my husband back through spell casting and our relationship was now stronger than how it was before.One of the price i was asked to pay was to tell it to people around me that problems like this,can always be solved by “priest azula Great Oracle Temple Solution”. So! my advice for you out there is to visit this same website,and tell him your problems too,if you are in any condition related to love issue or getting your ex back,to have a happy family.THANKS.... HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS helptemple@yahoo.com CONTACT HIM TODAY VIA THIS EMAIL ADDRESS: helptemple@yahoo.com AS HIS POWERS ARE SO STRONG AND VERY EFFECTIVE AND HAS NO BAD EFFECT INSTEAD IT HAVE A VERY GOOD RESULT AFTER CASTING THE SPELL.remember helptemple@yahoo.com

    October 15, 2012 at 03:00 | Report abuse | Reply
  41. joman


    i want to use this opportunity to tell Dr Emmauel of love temple, that i am very grateful for helping me get back my lover' after he abandoned me for good six months with pains and tears in my heart. i am Miss joman from united states. my boyfriend before the break up usually insult and see nothing good in any thing i do, i felt as if i was cursed. my friends advised me to let go but i couldn't because of the love i have for him. which was so strong and could even move ten mountains in a speed of light. after two days of my contact with Dr Emmauel my boyfriend came back with apologies and love that he had never show me before. right now he doesn't insult me any more rather he tells me how pretty and wonderfully made i am by God each morning. (powetounitelovetemple@gmail.com) one thing i love about Dr Emmauel , is that he is so accommodating and free.you can still call Dr Emmauel on his personal line at +2348156885231

    joman harderd
    united states

    October 19, 2012 at 21:37 | Report abuse | Reply
  42. MY EX IS BACK...

    Am so happy to tell the whole world that my ex boyfriend is back to me after 3years of our break up. He left me and change his contact, I tried all I could to make him come back to me as we were before but all my efforts failed. A friend introduced me to this spell caster who cast a spell for me and after 4days of his spell my ex came back looking for me. Today we are happy together as we were before. All thanks goes to kabaka for helping me bounce back to life. If any one on this site needs the help of a spell caster, you can contact him via his email KABAKASPELL@GMAIL.COM or his phone number +2348169750752.

    October 22, 2012 at 06:17 | Report abuse | Reply
  43. KEYH

    Waooooo. I was here some weeks ago to search for a spell caster who can bring my ex back to me. My spirit just choose this particular spell caster called kabaka. Behold he actually cast a spell for me and After 3days my ex came back looking for me. Today we are together again. Am so happy, thanks to you dr kabaka. If you are here to search for help, don't stress yourself too much, contact Kabakaspell@gmail.com or his phone number +2348169750752. He will certainly help you the way he helped me.

    October 22, 2012 at 06:18 | Report abuse | Reply
  44. Diana rossay

    Hello.my name is diana rossay,i am here to share my testimony on how Great Zuba help my life and my situation around for good.firstly I had issues with my husband so he left the house just because we had a slight quarrel and he got pieced off and I tried all my possible best to get back in tourch with he to no avail he suddenly turn back and told me he don't want anything from me any more that he wants to be alone so this left me sober and sad,I told my friends about it then they introduced me to Great Zuba that he is a good man and he will do anything for me if I want so I consulted Great Zuba and he told me that he will get my husband back for me so he said then he cast some spell for me then he asked me to wait until after 3days which I did.... In exactly 3days time I was at home and he walked in and started apologizing...all thanks to Great Zuba for his work upon my life and my friends life which he has also affected in various way!!!I am a living testimony to what Great Zuba has done for me and my friends,i just want to thank you once again...contact he today at.....Greatzuba@gmail.com.

    October 24, 2012 at 19:09 | Report abuse | Reply
  45. priest ajasa


    I am Priest Ajasa from the Greek.
    I cast spell for politicians, Business men and women, for lottery,for Lovers, for Success,for Riches, for winning a court case, Etc.
    I read people's post on goggle and the rest places and i can see how much fake and false spell caster has spoilt every where with there Testimonies.
    But why telling lies that you are a spell caster?
    You people have made people not to know who is real. )
    I am the Gods of solution... A spell Caster with dignity and straight forward.
    I learn't how to cast a spell for over 46 years, if you read my post, you are free to email me on ( lavenderlovetemplesolution@gmailcom)
    I hope to read from you.
    Priest Ajasa

    October 26, 2012 at 21:46 | Report abuse | Reply
  46. chloe

    My name is Chloe from Michigan,My husband n I av lived 2gedr 4 10yrs but with no kids, we went 2 different temples and magicians , all 2no avail. This caused frustration and my husband left me alone for another woman. I was so bitter,cried and Even tried to commit suicide, it was by this river bank while trying 2get my self drowned that I met this man.I explained all my problems to him and he laughed and told me to follow him home. At first I taught he was some spiritualist or another scam-er just wanting to take advantage of my helplessness. He prepared certain things for me to eat and bath with, and just 2weeks after my husband came back to me begging and not only that I have my love of 10years back, am also 2months pregnant. And he did all this without collecting a single penny from me. I just want 2thank this prophet, have always believed there are no real prophets again,but this great man showed me there is power 2whom power has been given. His name is priest zedikus. U can contact him on this email address agadezsolutionground@gmail.com. TRY HIM he's indeed a Life saver.

    October 26, 2012 at 21:49 | Report abuse | Reply
  47. sydney

    I lost my 10 years relationship during April. My ex left me with so much pains and since then i have been heart broken and shattered. I have contact 15 spell casters and 10 of them has rip me off my money without any result. I have Emailed so many sites online looking for a good spell caster till i was directed by a 16 years old girl to alagayospelltemple@gmail.com At first i never believed him because he was requesting for some amount of money to buy items, it took him three weeks to convince me and something occur to my mind and i said let me give him a trial.
    I was very shocked when Robben called four days after i sent Dr,Richard

    the items money. He apologies for all he has done and i am very happy that we are together today because he proposed to me last night. I will advise you to contact alagayospelltemple@gmail.com because he has done wonders in my life and i believe he can help you out in any problem


    October 26, 2012 at 21:52 | Report abuse | Reply
  48. major herold

    My name is Major. Barrack Herold, my wife left me went i was in the war front. I spent 6 months in the during the United Nations peace keeping in Sierra Leone. I was very shocked when i came back and notice that my wife is engaged to someone else. The anger of the war lend me into the street chasing the man with gun until one faithful Monday when my co-soldier from Africa introduce me to lavenderlovetemplesolution@gmail.com .I was very nervous in contacting him because i never believe in spell. I gave him a trial and to my greatest surprise, it worked. Stephine is back home with my son and i am the most happy man on earth. If anyone need to solve any problem, I Major. Barrack Herold advise you to contact lavenderlovetemplesolution@gmail.com

    October 26, 2012 at 21:56 | Report abuse | Reply
  49. albert


    October 29, 2012 at 19:17 | Report abuse | Reply
  50. bright

    my name is bright junior, i want to thank my very good friend gaba for showing me way to Dr Ugbokhare temple were i was cast reuniting spell for.i must say Dr ugbokhare is the greatest spell caster of our time, this man cast a spell for me without asking me for any money, i have never believed in a spell caster until i meet this spell caster.i must say since this man cast a spell for me i have never get any quarrel with my girl, and now we are even preparing to get married soon, all this are the powers of Dr Ugbokhare the spell caster. i don't want to hangout without dropping the email of this spell caster who help me recover my ex back without any fee.please contact this spell caster on his email:
    templeofmoneyspell@gmail.com because there is know one without problem it depend on how your own problem comes, but trust me this spell caster can still help you solve it. once you contact him on his email:
    templeofmoneyspell@gmail.com all your problems will be over.once more i say a very big thanks to you DR UGBOKHARE for helping me to recover my ex girl back.

    October 31, 2012 at 19:28 | Report abuse | Reply
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72

Leave a Reply to imefawepuijid


CNN welcomes a lively and courteous discussion as long as you follow the Rules of Conduct set forth in our Terms of Service. Comments are not pre-screened before they post. You agree that anything you post may be used, along with your name and profile picture, in accordance with our Privacy Policy and the license you have granted pursuant to our Terms of Service.

« Previous entry
About this blog

Get a behind-the-scenes look at the latest stories from CNN Chief Medical Correspondent, Dr. Sanjay Gupta, Senior Medical Correspondent Elizabeth Cohen and the CNN Medical Unit producers. They'll share news and views on health and medical trends - info that will help you take better care of yourself and the people you love.