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March 3rd, 2011
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E-motional affairs: How Facebook leads to infidelityIan Kerner, a sexuality counselor and New York Times best-selling author, blogs about sex on Thursdays on The Chart. Read more from him at his website, GoodInBed.
If you or your mate are spending too much time strolling down a digital Memory Lane, an emotional affair could be in the works. Here's how to Facebook-proof your relationship: Don’t romanticize the past at the expense of the present. I’m hearing this real-life story more often: A tale of high school sweethearts trying to go “back to the future,” only to realize they should have been content to leave those memories in that old shoebox in storage. How to reconnect and not be awkward or creepy In the end, we’re only human. We all romanticize the past, men and women alike. And no memories are more potent than those first youthful fumblings. We tend to remember the good parts and forget the bad. Until the advent of Facebook, though, most of us were compelled to leave the past in the past and move on. But now exes of all stripes - high school sweethearts, college lovers, former hookups - are popping up on Facebook. When two people strike up an online friendship, it’s easy to idealize each other and blur the line between fantasy and reality. An intense sense of intimacy is quickly fostered, particularly if intimacy was once shared in the past. But when one partner starts sharing himself or herself with another person, it chips away at the foundation of their core relationship - and starts building a foundation for a new relationship. Don't keep secrets. Here’s where friendship and attraction cross the line into emotional cheating. Each person stops sharing certain aspects of the friendship with his or her partner, and starts confiding more in the “friend” and less in his or her partner. In the past few years, I’ve heard from at least three exes who wanted to be my Facebook friend or found my website and e-mailed me out of the blue. And while it's tempting to accept these friend requests, or to fire back a quick “of course I remember you” e-mail, I haven’t done so. That was then; this is now. And in those rare instances where I have accepted an ex as a Facebook friend, or written back, I’ve informed my wife and let her read every correspondence. Not because she doesn’t trust me, but because we have nothing to hide. Once you have something to hide, that’s where the trouble begins. So if an old flame is on your case, just say, “I’m in a relationship now. I wish you all the best.” With Facebook friends like these, who needs enemies? The instant gratification of Facebook and other social networks stimulates reward centers in the brain - and it's easy to find oneself craving the quick hit of a connection or lamenting its absence. Even without the senses driving attraction, the mind goes into overdrive and imagines that this is the perfect person and the perfect relationship. Soon, a person may feel like an online friend “knows” him or her better than a partner does. People may feel freer to explore other parts of themselves, while real life (and a real relationship) feels stifling. This artificial sense of intimacy can begin to consume a person’s thoughts, which becomes all the more exciting because it’s a secret. Most people don’t set out to have “e-motional” affairs, and that’s one of the dangers of social networks like Facebook. It often just happens, usually as a friendly relationship snowballs into something more meaningful. A common myth is that only people in unhappy relationships have emotional affairs. In fact, many men and women who commit emotional infidelity report that they were happy when they became involved with their affair partners. Rather than seeking out love (or sex), unfaithful partners gradually blur the boundaries between friendship and intimacy over an extended period of time. Facebook friends: More powerful than Internet porn . As a sex therapist, I tend to hear a lot about people’s sexual habits, both when they’re with their partner and when they’re on their own. Now, it's no secret that when men self-pleasure they often choose Internet pornography over their own erotic imagination. Think of it as the lazy man's way; the difference between reading and watching TV. However, men who are Facebooking with their exes and falling in love all over again often skip the computer and go back to those potent formative memories to get themselves off. That’s how strong the past is - even stronger than Internet porn! An online affair is fueled by feelings of attraction between two people. You start to idealize the other person and fantasize about what sex would be like. This only adds fuel to the fire. Just like primary relationships, affairs that start out slowly and build a connection before progressing to sex are often the most difficult to break off - and the most damaging to the other relationship. There's no shame in disconnecting your Facebook account. Whether you’re a man or a woman, if you find you’re thinking more and more about the past, and getting to the point where you’re fantasizing about what it would be like to be with that person again, it’s time to unplug your computer, and get back to “face-timing” with your partner instead of Facebooking with the past. There's no shame in removing the one variable causing all the problems. Look, in the end we’re all living, breathing sexual beings. Attraction doesn’t end once we’re in a relationship. Even the most happily coupled people are going to feel the familiar buzz of attraction when someone catches their eye or laughs at one of their jokes. However, while feeling attraction is unavoidable, acting on it crosses the line. Attraction is one ingredient of an emotional affair. In order for attraction to launch into an emotional affair, a person has to also develop intimacy and, eventually, a feeling of connection with that person that supersedes their current relationship. In other words, attraction + effort + intimacy = emotional infidelity. Take away one, and all you’re left with is a natural instinct or a harmless Facebook friendship. Put all three together, and with friends like that... your relationship has a new enemy. soundoff (1,424 Responses)« Previous 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 Next »Leave a Reply to GtnbCrulk
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While the movie "The Social Network" may be Oscar history, Facebook is creating real-life dramas that lead to anything but Hollywood happy endings. In the last couple of years, I’ve seen scores of relationships destroyed by what I call "Facebook bombs" - blasts from the past that leave a relationship shattered to pieces.
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I am Mike from USA
My name is Paton
My ex-husband and I had always manged to stay friendly after our divorce, but I always wanted to get back together with him, and he was never sure. So, I
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my lover is back with the great help of priest umahon he help me cast
a spell that brought her back to my arms, in just two days. my lover
left me with our only kid and now they are back, once again i want to
thank priest umahon for his wonderful spell am now a happy man. you
can contact the great spell caster on his email:
drumahonsolutiontemple@gmail.com for more help or you can still reach
him on his phone number in person on +2348103594623 for more advise
Mr Mac
from
Canada
My Name is Sandra I want to give thanks to a great man who has brought back happiness to my life.Dr ikuku is really a great Man after my lover left me for 2years,i was so fraustrated i almost killed myself until i came incontact with dr ikuku who told me that my ex will be back to me with 48Hours.At first i taught dr ikuku was a scam until the second day when my lover called me on phone and started begging me that he was sorry that i should forgive him and he bought me a New C class Benz and a gold necklace i was so happy and really believed that dr ikuku is really a great spell caster and not a scam like other fake spell caster who are online to add pain to your pain,Please people that need help i will love you people to contact dr ikuku because i can swear with my life that dr ikuku is a man to trust.You can contact him on his private mail ikukutempleofsolution@gmail.com or cell Number +2348034458597
Hello am Heidi So trustworthy spell caster are still online?i never believed until i saw some post about dr ikuku on how he has helped lots of people on the internet.I told him i have had about him on internet and before i told him my problem,He has already told me what i came for and said people had scammed me off my money and added pain to my pain i was so shocked,He just told me that everything will be okay within 48hours,i told him this was what does fake spell caster also told me,He said i should give him a try which i did.Truly am just short of words and over excited for what dr ikuku has done for me exactly when the 48hours was completed the call i got was from my lover that left me with pain for over 4year,He said on phone Heidi,Can we talk in a sad and shy tone,i was like yes then he came to my house and apologised to me that he was sorry and proposed to me that same day and asked if i would marry him and i said yes,And our wedding will be january 20 friends you are cordinatly invited am so happy,Thanks to dr ikuku you can contact him on ikukutempleofsolution@gmail.com or cell number +2348034458597 for your solution his truly a man you can trust and confide in and am from Germany
my name is Juliet,
three weeks ago my boyfriend broke up
with me. it all started when i Travel to england to
spend my holiday with my friend,i was
trying to contact him but it was not going
through. So when i came back from england i
saw him with a lady kissing, i was frustrated
and it gives me sleepless night. I called my
friend told her what happened and she
introduce me to a spell cater who helped
her long time ago. Which i contact him and i
never believed that the spell will work so
easily because i have contacted many spell
casters to get him back all they do is to take
my money with no result. I am happy to tell
you all that after 48hours of contacting high priest hatunba, my boyfriend is back and
committed to me alone and he do whatever
i ask him to do with love and care. All thanks
to high priest hatunba the great spell caster who helped
me to restore my boy friend to
me:you can also contact him via his email address:hatunbatempleandspellcasting@gmail.com .. Contact him he will bring back
your ex now
Regards
JULIET
thanks to the great man who help me solve my problem he help me bring back my beloved wife back in just 3days he is the man i have believed in my life after so many things he is really a great spell caster you can contact him in any kind of problem email:dr.olutemple@gmail.com
my lover is back with the great help of priest umahon he help me cast a spell that brought her back to my arms, in just two days. my lover left me with our only kid and now they are back, once again i want to thank priest umahon for his wonderful spell am now a happy man. you can contact the great spell caster on his email: drumahonsolutiontemple1@gmail.com for more help or you can still reach him on his phone number in person on +2348103594623 for more advise
Mr Mark
from
Canada
MY NAME IS PETER.. A couple of months ago my wife left me and we were separated for 5 months.But then I found out she was starting a relationship with one of my best friends. I was devastated. I wasn't sure weather I anted revenge or if I wanted her back found the Doctor okosodo website and went over my options with them over the phone. decided I wanted my wife back for the sake of my son. Now she is back , thanks Dr okosodo you can contact him on mail,/okosodothespellcaster@gmail.com
i am Mrs. jacobs from switzerland. i want to use this medium to congratulate DR.olugbo for the great help of spell he has render to my relationship
outbreak. since past 3 years i was in a relationship problem with my ex, he
always get me beating, i never knew he has another girl outside the town, her
name is michel, until i get his email address from the internet, so i email
him and i laid all my complain to him, he promise me that i am to keep off away from him, and i really agreed on it, but on a condition that my lost
ex will be back,,,, he really but some few items he uses to consulting his
great oracle, his plan for my relationship was fullfil and my lost ex was
back again within 48hrs... please if you are in such mess today please
contact him at (olugbotemple@hotmail.com)
hi everyone Just as he said I would, I am now reunited with the person I love. I am happier than I've ever been as I can now look to an amazing future with the person I thought I'd lost for good.Dr Odalor you are truely the best,i want to say a big thank you to once again, i have never been this happy in my entire live.you too can reach Dr Odalor on templeofodalor@gmail.com or +2348102409192
Thank you and God bless.
Todd, Derby united states
SIDNEY LOVETH(A.S.A)
i want to thank and appreciate dr ogudu for bringing back my ex boy friend who lelt me for 2years and went back to his ex girl because i accuse him seeing his ex girl.i tried all i could to get him back to myself,untill i met dr ogudu who put all the necessary things together to ensure that he comes back to me.dr ogudu is really a man that can brings back your joy in life.he is very active and genuine to help you get back your ex lover.i urge you to reach him on his address:oguduspell@gmail.com.
sidney loveth( U.S.A)
Need a spell caster?then think of Bologo he is real reliable and he does what he promise you.I know all this because he helped with my marriage problem.For security reason i will not live my name here but i can tell you all he did to help me.Me and my family live in the US military base here in America,my wife is a solider and i love it that she is and i support.But being a solider means she is half my wife and fully the U.S army.before her three tour we were so in love and we had a kid son who we both love him.It all changed after her two tour in Iraq and Afghanistan,i noticed the distance her second tour she stopped call at first i thought maybe she was part of an accident but i found out that she was OK in Afghanistan.She explained that she always on patrol.It got ugly on the third. I guess in the last two tours she found herself a new lover and then totally forgetting me and our boy.I can not say i did not notice because she always has to be some where instead of with me,coming up with some silly excuse not to be with me that is ( have sex ) and her entire behavior told me all i needed to know. i did my research and i had a hint that it was her squad lieutenant.I had know evidence so a could not take the matter to any body.It killed me to seeing this happen i was going suicidal.What hurt me the most was she going home knowing that i suspect she infidelity,she kept lying to me over and over again.The power of positive thinking helped me a lot.I thought that maybe i can find in the help on the internet with the people who had being in the same problem with him.I found a lot of ways but nor worked except Bologo spell.At that time five month ago i was so confused that i could do anything to get my wife back so i contacted Bologo with his email address i saw in some comment on the internet at ogunshrine@gmail.com.I laid down my problem to him and told him the entire story and he even confirmed my hint was right, how he did i do not know but he was right because my wife told me later after the spell was made effective.Bologo cast a spell on them both do not know what he did but it seem he made them both forget they ever crossed path romantically speaking like they never know each other expect there official relationship that is squad leader and solider.I owe my life to Bologo what he did saved my marriage.I can tell you this because i have tried and it worked for me.Your case also have a solution with Bologo contact him with his email ogunshrine@gmail.com
Hello
My name is Selina and i am from California i want to give all thanks to Priest Gbenga Magic Temple for helping me to recover my ex back, i was seriously in a breakup with my ex girl and i think all hope was lost until i was searching the internet and i saw a testimony that someone shared about Priest Gbenga Magic Temple and i choose to contact him also to see if he can still help me, i gave him a trial but at the end joy and happiness filled my heart, i have never believed in a spell caster because i have been a victim of fake spell caster, but Priest Gbenga Magic Temple made me believe that there are still great spell caster like him, but i must say people like Priest Gbenga Magic Temple are rare to find,that is why i must not go out from here without dropping this email address of this great spell caster who helped me get my ex back, so reader if you are out there you are looking for the help of a spell caster you are advise to contact Priest Gbenga Magic Temple via his email; priest_gbenga.magic_temple@priest.com once you contact him all your problems will be solved immediately.web site is http://www.priestgbengamagictemple.webs.com
hi everyone, i got Dr Odalors private mail address when I had some bad luck thrown my way. I had a consultation with Dr Odalor, He casted the Ultimate Jinx & Evil Remover/Curse Killer Spell. My husband left me and I thought I needed the same spell again, but during the consultation Dr Odalor told me to save the money, because he thought that spell wasn't needed again and for me to save my money from getting the same spell.............. He told me to get the Come To Me, Obstacle Breaker and Love Only Me Spells with the potions and within days my husband returned and with that Love Only Me potion his love for me felt like the day we were married...... I had the Miracle Money Spell X 3 (three times) and I came into a nice sum of money. I am so grateful for Dr odalor to enter my life. I made a video testimony for Real Gifted Spells look on the video section it should be posted:... you could reach him on his private mail box on templeofodalor@gmail.com deborah
thank to dr odudu when my man left me for another woman on xmas eve, me and my man was together in the same table drinking i never knew were this woman come from my man started run after her ass and i try to wedraw my boyfriend back it was too later my boyfriend said is all over just like that when i contacted dr odudu via odudu@gmail com that is when i believe on automatic magic power that work fast without delay after two weeks my man come back to me the way dr odudu told me that is how it came to pass am happy now with the help of dr odudu, are you in any problem that you feel nor thing you can do about it just contact dr odudu@gmail com and see you problem being restore in just am hours good luck or call +2348051913076 for ease act
madolia U S A
Thank to dr odudu that help me out when my man drove me away it was dr odudu that help me out with a magic spell that restore my relationship back to me in just three day,do you have any problem in your family just contact oduduspell@gmail.com or call 2348051913076.
Queen U K
I AM SO HAPPY THAT MY EX IS BACK TO ME HE NOW ADORE AND RESPECT ME ANYTHING I TELL HIM THAT IS WHAT HE FOLLOWS ALL THANKS TO DR UPESA, THE GREAT SPELL CASTER,THIS MAN HIS THE BEST AND STRAIGHT FORWARD SPELL CASTER THAT TELLS YOU THE TRUTH AND YOU WILL GET RESULT UNDER 2DAYS,OTHER SPELL CASTER ARE SCAM BUT DR UPESA, IS VERY TRUSTWORTHY PLEASE IF YOU NEED YOUR LOVER ONCE BACK PLEASE KINDLY CONTACT DR UPESA ON HIS PRIVATE MAIL UPESASPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM
Hello To The World At Large, I am Miss Rose Clinton.I Am from USA I will start by saying to all that have experience heart break and also cant do with out there lover should please stop here and read up my story, So as you will know how to go solving or getting your ex back from this spell caster..AND AGAIN I WILL WANT TO ALSO TELL ALL THAT THIS SPELL CASTER I WILL WANT TO TELL THE WHOLE WORLD ABOUT IS HARMLESS AND DO NOT HAVE ANY SIDE EFFECT, BUT TO RESTORE AND GIVE YOU BACK WHAT YOU DESERVE, COS WHEN I MEET WITH THIS SPELL CASTER THAT WAS INTRODUCED TO ME BY THE WIFE OF MY BOSS IN MY WORKING PLACE, HE MADE IT CLEAR THAT HE CAN CAST SPELL ON SO MANY OTHER PROBLEMS EXCEPT IN GETTING YOUR EX OR MAKING YOUR LOVER TO LOVE YOU MORE THAT WILL SUITE YOU. Last year December, My lover was cheating on me and was not also give me the attention that a man should give to a woman,And really that was troubling my mind and tearing my heart apart to the extent that i was not concentrating in the office the way i use to before the break up by my lover.And before that incident,I always see how my boss use to love his wife so much. I was binging to think that i was not doing the right thing to him that will make him love me forever,So i really gathered my courage and went to my boss wife office to ask her the secret that made her husband love her so dearly,In the first place she refused in telling me,She asked me why i am asking her such a question,That if is it not normal for every man to love his wife.I told her the reason that made me ask her about this question,That my lover started cheating on me lately,When i knelt down before her for her to see my seriousness in this issue that i went to ask her,She opened up to me by telling me that i should not tell anybody about what she want to tell me,The wife to my boss started to say to me that she used a very powerful spell on his husband to love her,And the spell that she used is harmless, But the spell is just to make him love her and never to look for any other woman except her. I QUICKLY ASK HER HOW DID SHE GET TO KNOW THIS GREAT,POWER,DURABLE AND PERFECT WORK SPELL CASTER,she said that a friend of hers also introduce her to him. Then i also ask her how i can meet with this spell caster.SHE SAID EVERYTHING TO ME,THAT THE NAME OF THIS SPELL CASTER IS IMOMOH SPELL TEMPLE.My next question to her was how can i get this wonderful spell caster,She said she is going to give me the email of the spell caster for me to contact him for my problem,Really she gave to me this spell caster email and i contacted him and explained all to him,And after every thing that needed to be done by the spell caster, In the next two days, My lover that hated me so much came to house begging for forgiveness and i was so glad that i have finally gotten my heart desire..I was so grateful to this spell caster for what he has done for my life.. So i made a promise to him that i will always continue telling the world about his wonderful work towards me and also to other that came to you before and also the people that will also get to you from my story that i narrated online now..I will want to say to the entire world that you should not cry over noting again, That there is a great man that has been helping individuals to restore there Joy and smile in there faces !! The direct email to get this man is : imomohspelltemple@yahoo.com ,This is what i want to tell you all out there,That is thinking that all hope is lost ok..Thanks Regards, Miss Rose.
Hello, my name is Miss Lilian, I'm from USA. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is genuine
and real. I never really believed in any of these things but when I was losing Garvin, I needed help and somewhere
to turn badly. I found consultant. DR IMAFIDON and i ordered a LOVE SPELL. Several days later, my phone rang.
Garvin was his old self again and wanted to come back to me! Not only come back, the spell caster opened him up to
how much I loved and needed him. Spell Casting isn't brainwashing, but they opened his eyes to how much we have to
share together. I recommend anyone who is in my old situation to try it. It will bring you a wonderful surprises as
well as your lover back to you. The way things were meant to be." you can contact the spell caster on (
drimafidonspelltemple@hotmail.com ) Or call DR IMAFIDON through his tell: +2348073375739. He's
Am so happy to tell the whole world that my ex boyfriend is back to me after 3years of our break up. He left me and change his contact, I tried all I could to make him come back to me as we were before but all my efforts failed. A friend introduced me to this spell caster who cast a spell for me and after 48hours of his spell my ex came back looking for me. Today we are happy together as we were before. All thanks goes to kabaka for helping me bounce back to life. If any one on this site needs the help of a spell caster, you can contact him via his email KABAKASPELL@GMAIL.COM or his phone number 2348169750752.
i am loius i want to thank dr ogudu for his worderful work he did in my
happy home my wife accuse me of seeing my ex girl friend then i trial to
calm her down she refuse i day i went to my work ofter close i went back
home i meet my wife packing out of my home ofter 2days i ment a friend who
directed me to dr oguduspeLL@gmail.com mr murphy.this are the same problem
i was having in my family but dr ogudu has restored my home back in peace
and harmony thank you father.
Hello readers,my name is EDWINA LORRES ,i wanna share a testimony of a mega spell caster who help me bring my ex boyfriend back.
I broke up with my ex since last month hoping that we will get back again but things was getting worse until someone directed me to a great spell caster who cast a reuniting spell for me without collecting any money from me.i must say he is indeed a great spell caster.
And i know he can still help you,and is a sin if i should go out without dropping the email of this great spell caster,please contact him on his email: afiamensolutionshrine@gmail.com
once you contact him your problems will be over.
Once more i say a big thanks to you for helping me recover my ex back.
I have been married for 5years and my marriage was great, but few months ago our romantic feeling was going down everyday there was no romantic. I was scared that I am loosing my husband to someone else,so I search on the internet and I found a spiritualist that help in spiritual cleaning and divination to intervene in my love Life whit the necessary spiritual cleaning, everything was alright again in my Life. DR Ogun I met on internet help me out whit in 48hours,passion and romantic was again in our home, our marriage is stronger than ever, you can contact him in on his Email address ogunspiritualspellcastertemple@gmail.com... specializing in the fields of Love, Money, Power,
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I just had to write to say thank you to the great Dr Ovie, thank you, thank you. My wife returned home to me just five days after I ordered my love spell from him. I was really beginning to feel that we would never be reunited. but Dr Ovie changed my point of view.
Now after just a few weeks we are actually getting closer and more in love than ever just as you said we would. Once again, Dr Ovie thank you so much you are really wonderful.i wnt to recomend him to those of us in need you could reach him on templeofovie@gmail.com or +2348167612109
From:Phillip Reeves, Australia.
I am using this medium to thank drsaviour for
his kindness and helping me bring back my lover.
You have taken sorrow and pains from my life. My
girlfriend is back and in a happy mood. He is
indeed a good and trusted spell caster. His email
is drsaviourtemple@dr.com I am Amanda
from Georgia
my name is Jason i was in the us army and went to Afghanistan leaving my wife and two kids Was away from home for 2 years when i returned my wife told me she was no longer interested in the marriage that if she could survive for 2 years without me the marriage is meaningless.leaving home for 2 years was not easy but not having a family when i came back was more difficult i pleaded continuously with her for 2 years even left the army just to convince her but all my attempt to get her back failed. This faithful day was about to sign a friend guest book when i saw a post about a spell caster at first i laughed but took the email address and phone number after 2days something inside of me just asked me to contact him so i did he asked for her full name and her picture which i sent he told me she was going to call me after 48 hrs to my surprise she called my even before the 48 hrs elapsed and said he was wrong to have left me and said she wanted me back .just using this testimony to encourage other men and even women to contact this great spell caster for good luck spell,marital and relationship problems,wining lottery etc this is his direct contact . docigodo@gmail.com and Tel :+2348169138446.
Thank you.
Jason
Hello everyone my name is Elizabeth,i came across this man called Dr.Ogungbe through a Lady here online and she said he helped her bring back her lost love,i don't believe in this but i come to think about it and use faith and hope to contact this man last 2 weeks,i have lost my husband for 2 years even he is trying to get married to another lady in Italy,Rome..i quickly rush and email dr.Ogungbe for help and i thought its still a freak because i don't really believe he can bring him back to me because its too long we have contacted each other,we only comment on each other status on facebook and when ever he come online he has never talk anything about coming back to me,now i really believe that there is Magic and Dr.Ogungbe is a really God sent and has Magic because all these things is still like a dream to me,Dr.Ogungbe told me in the first mail that everything will be fine,i called him and he assure me,i have so many doubt but now am happy,i can't believe my love broke up with his Italian lady and he is now coming back to me and he can't even explain how everything goes all he said to me is that he want me back,i am really happy and cried so much because it was just like i am born a new and am really happy and my entire family are happy for me but they never know whats the secret behind this...i want you all divorce lady or single mother to please contact this man for help and everything will be fine i really guarantee you..i have tell 2 of my friends who are in unhappy relationship and they have seen solution in few days ago...if you want to contact him you can reach him through (dr.ifaogungbe@live.com) (+2348131210107) that is where you can get to him and i assure you it gonna work fine with you and you will be happy
i am out of words am just happy and i will be happy forever because i can never have any problem having this man
Elizabeth is my name
Dr UZARO Pray for my husband to stop cheating on me with his ex-girlfriend. Me & my husband have been married for 3 yrs. We have lived together for 16yrs and been together almost 17 yrs. I am asking Dr UZARO to remove the ex-girlfriend from my husbands heart and remove her from our marriage. I believe there is an ungodly hold on my husband. He even admits that he doesn't trust her and that I am a better woman than she is and says she is greedy, selfish and a liar. But he still sneaks to call her on the phone etc. She also is very persistent. This is her nature to stay connected to ex-boyfriends etc. He is not the first. My husband is a Christian and is just doing the opposite of what a Christian does. I believe he is drinking again. He says he has changed. He has been back and forth for the past year now. He even joined her Devil church. She believes Magic sent him to her. She wants him to divorce me and marry her. She thinks this is Satan’s plan. He says he doesn't want to keep hurting me. He says he still loves and is in love with me. He said he doesn't think he could stop seeing her. He was faithful to me for over 16 years. I think he is in a midlife crisis and the devil is messing with him. I do not want to divorce him but I am getting to the point where I had enough. I keep praying to God. My husband isn't the Godly man I know. He needs to repent to God and turn away. This woman is being used by Satan. I pray she repents and turns to God and walks away from my husband. I pray for God to physically remove her from his life. I also order prayer for my son. I am asking Dr UZARO to heal his mind, heart and emotions. I believe my family is restored with the power of Dr UZARO the spell caster. I am not giving up. The devil loves to smokescreen situations. Now my Husband is in love with me and my family and promise not to lookup to other woman outside accept me her wife so tday is a very happy day in my life to share this grate testimonies to everyone in this prayer ground. If you need the help of the Man called Dr UZARO him is always there to help anyone who have problem once again thanks for all DR UZARO you help to me and my family I am very grateful I fund you Doctor you are God sent. Joan monger CONTACT THIS GREAT SPELL CASTER VIA EMAIL uzarospelltemple@yahoo.com
Hello every one my Name is LOVETH. I will love to thank Dr Shiva at hinduspelltemple@yahoo.com and share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our wedding for another man.., When i called her she never picked my calls, She deleted me on her facebook and she changed her facebook status from married to Single...when i went to her to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..I lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he gonna help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to US the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said, she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 3 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too.This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him to hinduspelltemple@yahoo.com I cant give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck: hinduspelltemple@yahoo.com .ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: (hinduspelltemple@yahoo.com) you are the best spell caster that can help solve any problem i will always give thanks to you.
A couple of years ago I was in a dark period in my life, the man I love to be with had gone off with someone else, that was when I was told about this Dr Red.
After been scam by lot of spell caster's promising me false hope not knowing all they really wanted was my money.. He gave me hope and he was right, within 48 hours my man is back to me because this week we have moved in with each other and we will be spending this Valentine together. A big thank you toDr Red.
I will use Dr Red. again for further work in the future. You can contact him on redtemple@live.com
"Like anybody would be, I was very skeptical about using a love spell but I was absolutely shocked when my lawyer called me after I had ASHRA cast the spell for me. That my husband wants to drop the divorce papers and he wants to come home again, It wasn't 48 hours that I had my love spell cast that he called me. I could not believe it, just months ago my world was crashing on me and now I am happy with my husband and my kids. Thank you ASHRA SPELL TEMPLE you can also contact ashra on email address : ashraspelltemple@gmail.com or call his personal mobile number +2348131134346
Dorothy Rodriquez, NY
My name is Sarah am United States, I am very pleased with the excellent work of Dr. Superlove he pray for my husband to stop me wrong with his ex-girlfriend. Me and my husband have been married for 3 years. We lived together for 16 years and together for almost 17 years. I ask Dr. Superlove to remove the ex-girlfriend of my husbands heart and remove it from our wedding. I believe there is a waiting unduly my husband. He even admits that he did not trust her and that I am a better wife than she is and she says she is greedy, selfish and a liar. But it always sneaks call on the phone, etc. It is also very persistent. It is his nature to stay connected to ex-boyfriends, etc. It is not the first. My husband is a Christian and do just the opposite of what a Christian is. I think it is to drink. He says he has changed. It was back and forth for the past year now. He even joined the church of the devil. She believes magic sent to it. She wants to divorce him to marry her. She thinks it is Satan's plan. He says he does not keep me from evil. He says he still loves him and he loves me. He said he did not think he could stop to see. He was faithful to me for over 18 years. I think it's a midlife crisis and the devil is playing with him. I do not want a divorce but I got to a point where I had enough. I continue to pray to God. My husband is not the pious man, I know. He needs to repent to God and turn away. This woman is used by Satan. I pray she repents and turns to God and away from my husband. I pray that God physically removed from his life. I also ordered prayer for my son. I ask Dr. Superlove to heal his mind, heart and emotions. I think my family is restored with the power of Dr. Superlove the caster. I do not give up. The devil likes situations smokescreen. Now my husband is in love with me and my family and promise not to look up another woman outside his wife accept me if today is a very happy day in my life to share this testimony grid everyone in the prayer ground. If you need help from a man called Dr. Superlove he is always there to help those who have the problem again thank you for all DR Superlove help for me and my family, I am very grateful I finance Doctor, you are God sent. Contact Joan monger excellent caster that I can help solve your problem yet his e-mail: superlovespell@gmail.com
My name is Sarah am United States, I am very pleased with the excellent work of Dr. Superlove he pray for my husband to stop me wrong with his ex-girlfriend. Me and my husband have been married for 3 years. We lived together for 16 years and together for almost 17 years. I ask Dr. Superlove to remove the ex-girlfriend of my husbands heart and remove it from our wedding. I believe there is a waiting unduly my husband. He even admits that he did not trust her and that I am a better wife than she is and she says she is greedy, selfish and a liar. But it always sneaks call on the phone, etc. It is also very persistent. It is his nature to stay connected to ex-boyfriends, etc. It is not the first. My husband is a Christian and do just the opposite of what a Christian is. I think it is to drink. He says he has changed. It was back and forth for the past year now. He even joined the church of the devil. She believes magic sent to it. She wants to divorce him to marry her. She thinks it is Satan's plan. He says he does not keep me from evil. He says he still loves him and he loves me. He said he did not think he could stop to see. He was faithful to me for over 18 years. I think it's a midlife crisis and the devil is playing with him. I do not want a divorce but I got to a point where I had enough. I continue to pray to God. My husband is not the pious man, I know. He needs to repent to God and turn away. This woman is used by Satan. I pray she repents and turns to God and away from my husband. I pray that God physically removed from his life. I also ordered prayer for my son. I ask Dr. Superlove to heal his mind, heart and emotions. I think my family is restored with the power of Dr. Superlove the caster. I do not give up. The devil likes situations smokescreen. Now my husband is in love with me and my family and promise not to look up another woman outside his wife accept me if today is a very happy day in my life to share this testimony grid everyone in the prayer ground. If you need help from a man called Dr. Superlove he is always there to help those who have the problem again thank you for all DR Superlove help for me and my family, I am very grateful I finance Doctor, you are God sent. Contact Joan monger excellent caster that I can help solve your problem yet his e-mail: superlovespell@gmail.com
My Name is Eva Lawrence
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my name is Ofori black Gideon, on facebook,am now in tears because my love left me with no reanson for another man,am dejected,when i ask her, she said she donot know whe she left me for him,my fellows with any help contact me
odumako@yahoo.com please i need all you help,i need a woman in my life now matter ages,as i haved try many lovespells and not stable,let me hear from you all,thank you
I was so impressed with the results of my love spell I told my friend to speak with you as well. Thank you ever so much for helping me get my love back. I know you said my energy and intent is as important as yours when casting this spell but I don't think I could have done it without your support. Bless you! Any one who need help should contact Dr. odu via email: odumako@yahoo.com
Hi amodospellcaster@gmail .com
I would like to thank you very much for your help my husband came back to me last Friday and we are very happy. Is there anything else I need to do to help the spell.
I would like to thank you again you are brilliant and I will be ordering a money spell off you
Thank you so much
Michaela
i saw a comment testifying of ashra great power and ability to re unit once love and ex lover so i copied its email and sent him an email and i he replied following all the instructions my husband is back with me now i want to thank the great ashra for helping me to cast a love spell that brought my husband back to me within 48hours of me contacting him,you can contact ashra on email address :ashraspelltemple@gmail.com or his personal phone number +2348131134346
Mrs Vanessa PUCHI
My Name is Ann Henry
Prophe Osayande is a great spell caster
I Have never spell believer in love until i met this world's top spell caster.
He is really powerful and Could help cast spell to bring back once's gone, lost
misbehaving lover and money spell or spell for a good job or whatever your problem
is. I am living testimony to the man i wanted to marry left me a week before our
wedding and my life was upside down Because our relationship has been on for 3 years.
I really love him, but his mother was against us and she had no good paying job. SW
when i met the spell caster, i told him what happened and explain the Situations of
things to him. At first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful but, i just Gave him
to try and in 3 days when i returned to USA, my boyfriend (now husband) called me
by himself and came to me apologizing That everything had been Settled with His mum
and family and I got a new job interview so we got marriage.
I do not believe it the spell caster asked me for my name and my husbands name
and that is all i wanted him to do. well we are married now and we are expecting the
our baby, and my husband got a new job Also and Became our lives better. In case anyone need a real spell caster via email address
Email: spiritualprophtictemple@gmail.com
Phone Number: +2348159046213 you can call him anytime
I am Pweetie Cynthia from London UK, just want to say thank to Dr Saga mudo the great spell caster.My marriage of 8years with two kids was about to come to an end when the great spell caster came to my aid.After 2days that he began work my husband came back and told me he did not know what came over him that made him file a divorce.it was like i miracle because i had pleased with him for weeks,and i bought him a brand new car which he rejected and i even ask for the reason he wanted to divorce me but he said nothing. i was unhappy he has left me for another woman i saw Dr Sica i told him my problem he said he is going to him me get him back i thought it was a jock he said in four days my husband is going to come back to me on that faithful week my husband called me and said he is coming back home it was a dream to me until i saw him that we were all happy please every body in case you are facing this kind of problem contacted him obedunnedospelltemple@gmail.com he is a great man email. obedunnedospelltemple@gmail.com
Thanks
Dr. Saga mudo
After reading the testimonies of Mariam jasmine,Carolyn (USA),Pamela (NY),Whitney (France),Adams (USA),Adams (USA),Shelly Clerk (Sweden),Mark Craig (Dublin),Gary ( Uk),Alexandra (Ohio USA) on how Dr Olumba brought their Lover and Ex back ,Carefully i contacted Dr Olumba and Explained to him, i was happily married for 22yrs and suddenly from no where a lady came and took my husband away, it was so sad and i loose everything, to my surprise Dr Olumba asked me to smile 3times and said i should give him just 48hrs and he got some items i the market to cast the spell, Exactly 3.00am My husband called me and said he would love to see me the next day i was shocked and when i went to see him , he said he was sorry and was bland folded before and asked me for forgiveness and i did forgive him , he asked me to pack all my things and i got back to his house, I was so happy, i tried thanking Dr olumba for this great work, but he asked me to just share the news that's all...friends and people to contact him with any kind of solutions,Friends i can swear by anything that Dr Olumba is a man you can contact for help and he is trustworthy.Here his is private mail olumbaspiritualproblemsolver@gmail.com or cell number +2348169108089
Barbara( Georgia USA)
I don't really know what came over my Boyfriend,his character change to me and all of a sudden he told me he is not interested in me after we have been together for 4 years,it was like am dying and i cried everyday because of him,i can't afford to loose him because he is all i have and we always understand each other not until he just break my heart all of a sudden...i tried all the relationship Advice pages and forum about bringing back your love ones but all was in vain and later a saw so many post about Dr.Ogungbe who have helped a lot of people and everybody that is talking about him was saying he was a spell caster.i am scared to contact him because i was scared and nervous about it,but later i contacted him 5 days ago telling him about my problem if he can help me out,all he told me was to be happy that i got his contact and my Boyfriend will be back to me after 2 rising Sun,i don't understand the meaning when he said that but he later told me he will be back to me in 2 days and i will be happy,it sound crazy to me that is that just easy?
he said i should not worry and he told what to do and as am telling you now my BF is back to me today and i notice he love me more than before and he was crying to have me back in his life which i know him too well that he has never been passionate like that...if anybody need help to bring there love ones back or anything,i really believe in Dr.Ogungbe and you can contact him as well on his mail address or phone number which i saw online myself and this is it here ###Dr.ifaogungbe@live.com### with his number(+2348131210107) i really believe he is a small god and he has help many people
thank you so much Dr,Ogungbe and have made his promise now because faster he finish everything in bringing back my Boyfriend,i told him i will write it on internet for people to know about him. thank you so much Dr. here you can reach him once again ###Dr.ifaogungbe@live.com### with his number(+2348131210107)
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